finally...some matters is going to settle down!

Tis month I have a lot of thing to settle. My jobs, my house renting,my car..lost and etc.
All the matters cant settle, all "gantung" there. don hav the right way to solve it! Finally all the thing is going to settle one by one. trouble reduce one by one. my headache pills hav to take reduce one by one.

Start from car lost, dunno how many times i hav to control myself that not to cry. I don hav time to cry, hav to be strength to face it and settle it. cry cant solve problem. But until today i still wanna cry :'( my works already take 80% of my time to concentrate and get it done. But a lot of objection n problem. I am a planner, who hav to provide solution to solve problem. Lucky i am in tis line, so I believe my EQ is improve a lot already : )

Wat a day......

Sit at here to relax...i think ...fantastic...wow.... 

The car price is drop....its already expected one!

Yesterday every newspaper and TV announce that the car price is going down. For me actually is already for pass 5years ago. Last time wen they mention reduce car price around year 2005. But they reduce slowly...why?cos govt havent start increase the petrol price to the level which can match with the profit margin for car price!

Last time the car price very expansive but the petrol is cheap. Nowadays the petrol price already increase to the price that the local car like perodua and proton can reduce the purchase price. Once u look to the long term use of the petrol....oh no...actually to cover back back the cost price for produce the car...hehehe....logical or not.

Same like wen u use handphone. Last time handphone is very expansive then the call out fees is ok. Nowadays handphone is very cheap. access fees is high! if u unable to control on usage then eat roti n maggi everyday only to pay the h/p fees la.

Car price is already ecpected one....for me mayb is good news gua...since my colleague all come and tell me that don b sad. its time to buy a new car...ok...good idea -.- z z z

(T_T)......(T_T)...wat a worst day......

My car lost...totally gone...yesterday 6pm is the last time I saw my car!
DOn know how to describe my feeling right now...just feeling sad n fainted.

In our life many thing is out of our control. Beside u can feel sad n cry for while, then is time to find the solution to solve the problem. After the whole morning go to do police report then I go to work. Wat I can do? DO the thing I have to do...then is wait la...if not am I hav to sit at my housing area car park there n waiting the ppl to return the car back? errrr....wat a day...

I just keep telling myself that.....this is a good arrangment for me...this a good arrangement for me...don blame it, just acceot it and think the good thing will happen! If not the life span will become shorten n harden.

My car NO. is AEB6638, silver colour-Proton Iswara(normal)...in front left hand side hav a bit scratch. If anyone c this this car please help me to report to police thank you!

I am the world stupid girl...... T_T

After my lunch appointment then only come back office to take my lunch alone in our office food court.
Then...oh no...I saw him...is him ^O^..fantastic...this morning i only wish tat I can saw him again... B'cos is quite hard for us to meet in the office.

I am the world stupid...y I said that? B'cos I hav the chance to hav lunch wit him. He also alone there to take lunch....I know it after I "da Pao" the food...T_T...wat a wrong timing!!!

Wat am I doing ???? Actually I hav some official thing to ask him, somemore is another chance to talk to him...BUT...once I saw him...already heart beat thousand mile until cant breath anymore! Hmmm...mayb I really don't have the luck in LOVE? Hmmm....T_T "I am stupid" X 10,000,000 times...I am the world stupid...stupid...so stupid....T_T...Not even said HI to him....Why I am so stupid...stupid girl...

My jobs......or my career...

My recently job is quite challenge and need to update a lot of info and knowledge.
My skills, knowledge and attitude totally have a huge change! I study a lot and learning a lot!

The services and the info I provide for the clients until todate, majority of them quite satisfied : )
Look at my ranking in the Company is quite behind. But I not really bother about it la! We from Financial Planning Department, we are too multitasking and have to be knowlegeable. So we do a lot of work that not helping us go up to the Ranking chat.

For this month onwards I am more concentrate at Home Loan on Fixed Rate 5.75% and 5.89% its actually can save a lot of interest paid. And Employee Fringe Benefits program, helping the Company to tailored made the benefit program to gain the praise and maintain the work force.

I have 3 will writing for last 2 months, be honest I quite scare to do will writing. Its take very long procedure. But I learn a lot from them, wat the problem they might face wen writing the will.

Planning is important,"People never plan to fail. but people fail to plan" : (
Wen u r driving, sure u will plan which road to use.
Wen u r spending, sure u will plan why u buy it.
Wen u r cooking, sure u will plan wat to cook.
Wen u r reading, sure u will plan wen u wanna finish reading......

Life is full of challenge, planning have to take place!

after dinner walk around the starhill and saw this nice peugeout....cool 

"Pen Chai at Hong Kong CUlture restaurant called-Gang Yin Gang Shi.....luxury pen chai...each person RM30++ have over 15 food inside...hav abalone,duck meat,chicken meat,prawn, fish ball and others...so so yumi :P 

Curry fish ball at Hong Kong food culture...yumi :p 

Warning in lrt station

Yesterday around 8pm after my appointment with client then go to take lrt.
Suddenly a guy come towards me and our bellows is our conversation:

Stranger:"Ms, do u know mandarin? Can you help me?"
Me :"yes,anything?"

Stranger:"I lost my purse, today I come to Tarc college to help my sister to submit the application form. Then my car is breakdown and no money to pump in petrol. Cannot go back to Melaka!"
Me :"hmmm....do you have any relative here?U don;t have handphone to call ur frens or parents to help you?"

Stranger:"I lost the whole thing and *&^%$##$%%&**@#@$"
(actually he talk quite fast and a lot of sentence I just hear n not listen. When he approach so near n talk a lot I just keep remind mtself tat..."Don't simply believe, mayb is cheating!)
Me :"eehhhhh....aaahhhhhh....i don't much of money wit me now!"

Stranger:"It's ok, how about u help me to pump in petrol?It's ok, do u wan me bring you to my car then we go to the petrol station to pump in the petrol?Still cant, do u hav ATM card to withdraw money n borrow me. DO u hav Maybank o Bumiputra ATM cards?
(his enquiry is too over already!What la :) At this point of time hav one malay guy passby and stand a little behind of this guy. Once I look at the malay guy he show me the signal that "DOn;t believe this guy, he is cheating!")
Me :"I think I cant help you and I am rushing to meet my fren now, sorry!"

Stranger:"U know u r the only chinese ppl i meet here, i start to get help from the afternoon raining until now. Pls help me,pls believe me."
Me :"Sorry, I really cant help you..... (Then quickly walk to the crowded areas.)

Thereafter I saw the malay guy again b4 the exculator. He ask me what the guy ask from you? I said is money. Then the malay guy told me that he saw this guy for the whole day here to collect money. Then he said:"you know in KL always have this kind of ppl come out to cheat money..."

I am very appreciate the signel giv by the malay guy. B'cos of his signal I can sure that totally don't believe wat the stranger said. One point I believe him cos today really is TARC college open day. Due to this fact I use to believe him! At the end still lucky that hav another good stranger giv me the warning : )

B'cos of this news..i work until like hell... 

龚诗嘉 《好·诗嘉》

专辑介绍：

一向坚持好音乐 好声音的华研唱片，在等待了两年之后，终于要推出一个来自新加坡的好好女声 - 龚诗嘉，拥有亲切笑容、优质嗓音、创作才华的诗嘉，是唱片界难能可贵的好女生，因为她个性随和、谦虚又懂事，而且非常体贴身旁的人，让第一次和她合作的工 作人员都非常喜爱她，直夸她真是好好女生啊。
因此有着好音质、好个性、好才华的诗嘉，终于将在努力了两年后发行首张个人专辑《好·诗嘉》，虽然将迎战唱片市场11月的战国时期，但诗嘉则勇敢迎接挑战，因为她相信专辑里的优质音乐，也相信自己的努力与认真会被大家看见。

专辑曲目：

01 再一次拥有
02 想不想自由
03 远远在一起
04 历险记
05 十字路
06 白鸽
07 如果真爱我
08 一天天
09 起初只是朋友
10 思念

A carrot, an egg or a cup of coffee......

You may never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her that she didn't know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighthing and struggling. It seemed that as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on the stove on high heat. Soon the pots came boil.

In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in another bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in yet another bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked "Tell me, what you see?"
"Carrots, eggs, and coffee,"She replied

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the egg was now hard boiled. Finally, the mother asked daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked,"What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg started out very fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique,however, after they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?"she asked her daughter."When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"

Here is a question to ask ourselves - Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seem strong but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I ann egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean?The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstances that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest,do you elevate yourself to another level?Hoe do you handle adversity?Are you a carrot...an egg...or a coffee bean?

Let the sunflower bring it up ur brand new day...... 

改变别人不如改变自己

“虽说改变是成长与进步的动力，但与其一味地想改变他人之前，更应先学会尊重他人！”

很久以前我试着想改变我老豆那传统思想，经常还是会引起争执！但我发现近期我改变了我自己，那就是尊重他人。先平心静气的听听他的想法，然后再平心静气的说出个人想法。

人生的课题，不是你想怎样就能怎样。人与人之间难免会有冲突，时时保持冷静的心态去处理每一件事情；这样就能减少摩擦与伤害。

有时候觉得生活很平凡、很无聊、很寂寞、很枯燥、很无常、很烦恼、很辛苦、很很很。。。这一切字眼都属于NEGATIVE THOUGHT-贬词。人自然而然变得了无生趣 @_@""

有位新朋友告诉我 “Be Positive or Be Quiet" 意思说；只可以让Positive Words从你嘴巴说出来，如果心情很糟的话就给我安静下来；等到心情变好时道出的话也只能是Positive ^P^

试着看，你会发现其中的奥妙；刚开始你会变得很安静。接下来就话多了也话变好了，说的人开心，听的人也开心 ^O^ 何乐而不为呢？

Devil Surround you....ROmantic Love Story 

紫色的浪漫情調-富良野

紫色的浪漫情調-富良野

道央的富良野是全日本最浪漫的 地方，富良野位於北海道正中央，每到夏季，嬌艷的花朵盡情的綻放，延伸整個上富良野和中富良野，而花的種類更是繁多：紫色薰衣草、紅白罌粟花、向日葵、鬱 金香、大波斯菊、魯冰花、水仙等，觸目所及皆是絢麗景色，彷彿置身於歐式庭園....因此有日本的普羅旺斯之稱。

北海道是從昭和23年起栽植薰衣草，它全盛期的栽種面積多達上百公頃，後來因進口香料價格低廉因而造成薰衣草花田栽植面積銳減，不過薰衣草並未從北海道消失，它高雅的色澤及香氣吸引了大量的觀光客造訪，反而成就了它的觀光特色。

薰衣草源自於瑞士，法國更是薰衣草栽植最盛的國家，由於富良野的氣候型態和法國很接近，所以薰衣草的移植栽種很成功，而薰衣草不僅有觀賞價值，更是製造香水的重要原料，它更是一種有療效的藥草，可治頭痛和幫助睡眠兼顧有整腸健腸及降低血壓的功效。

彩香之里

位於中富良野的彩香之里從6月中旬到9月下旬各種花卉相繼開放，羽扁豆的花揭開序幕，依序有薰衣草.鼠尾草.大理花及大波斯菊爭相開放，其中以薰衣草的大花園為北海道第一大規模的薰衣草田，一定要來此感受一望無際的紫色薰衣草田景觀。

Welcome to Furano Japan......wow 

Furano-Rainbow 

头疼。。真头疼 -.-""

今天开小组会议，今天总算人齐啦！新的quarter就要有新的计划。每个人都轮流讲述他们的计划。但是，轮到“稀客”要陈述他的计划时；Oh My God......真亏她竟然是和我同年的！10.30am 她竟然还在发白日梦。她说每一份工作的工资都无法稳定，她不喜欢辛苦但却想拥有很多的钱可以花！她竟然道出：“毋须那么辛苦工作啊！或许会嫁给有钱人/或许中福利券/或许可以做生意赚大钱。” 人生有时也需要发白日梦。但也不是在开小组会议时，一副非常真经和理所当然似的。

这就是人生的课题；穷人培养人才，富人培养蠢才。人才努力赚钱，蠢才努力花钱。赚钱留住存款，花钱留住帐单。存款支持生活，花钱支持贷款。生活要好好策划，贷款要快快减少！