A carrot, an egg or a cup of coffee......

You may never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her that she didn't know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighthing and struggling. It seemed that as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on the stove on high heat. Soon the pots came boil.

In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in another bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in yet another bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked "Tell me, what you see?"
"Carrots, eggs, and coffee,"She replied

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the egg was now hard boiled. Finally, the mother asked daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked,"What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg started out very fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique,however, after they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?"she asked her daughter."When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"

Here is a question to ask ourselves - Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seem strong but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I ann egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean?The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstances that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest,do you elevate yourself to another level?Hoe do you handle adversity?Are you a carrot...an egg...or a coffee bean?