紫薰坊

不明白。。。不理解。。。

2010-08-14T21:34:00.003+08:00

咖啡；可以让人提起精神。对我而言，只要闻到咖啡香；暂时可以放下烦恼和减压。有人说我中了咖啡毒，我会告诉他们我一天只喝一杯。

我爱莫卡，咖啡+巧克力；不加糖和奶。与人相处能够以原来的面貌，坦诚相待吗？

距离上一次碰到你，快要两个月了！今天碰到你，有一种莫名的感觉。我不知道你的名字，想见你。我不知道，会不会为你带来困挠。你走近了，我不敢抬头看你。很无奈，也不知所措。

今天有点难过，因为相隔两个月再见面，依然没有任何进展。痛；因为我等了又等。。。不知道要等到何时。没有人知道如何解读人的想法。此时，手里握着热乎乎的咖啡。再痛，也能顿时放松心情。想活在当下，不要为世俗而忧虑。面包很重要，没有面包就会丢了人生。

我经常会把别人的影子寄托在另一个陌生人的身上。然后就忘了，原来的。。。对陌生的人。。。渐渐的产生莫名的思念。我是一个爱幻想的人，不愿意面对现实。很害怕被人伤害，因为从来都没一个温暖的肩膀可以依靠。人世间的冷暖，没人问晓。

无法面对现实的理由，是因为事情还没发生。我，已经将最好的。。到最坏的各个状况都考虑到了。看得很远，想的很透。所以很期待，可以在每个早晨；都能喝到香醇的咖啡。好幸福哦！

纯真是很珍贵的态度，快乐来自纯真的想法；然后幸福就会敲门。
今天、明天、后天。。。记得面带微笑，迎接未来将会面对的事情。

生活，工作，娱乐，人际

2010-06-27T12:15:00.002+08:00

我最近买了新的netbook.很轻巧，也很好用。

生活，就像过山车，忽起忽落。好累！有时很开心，有时也很无趣。这种心情有时候还真的难以适应。

工作，就像计时炸弹，处于危险状态。你不知道几时会被别人炸死。能安然活着是侥幸。是时候寻找新的环境。

娱乐，就像复印机。重复着同样的节目，有时换了人。结果还是一样，那么无聊。所以，我也宁愿呆在家里也不愿出去。迟点会变成宅女！

人际，就像猜谜语。解开谜底的过程很煎熬，还怕接到错误的讯息；表达错误的反应。人与人之间，总是难以理解。没有一定的原理，变化无穷！

有时候，会觉得没有人了解我。也许大家都在忙着自己的事情，有时和你闲聊几句；敷衍你。有些人，爱说别人是非；背后对人指指点点，正面假惺惺的展示亲切。看来，真诚的人越来越少了。每个人都想踩着他人，保护自己得到想要的东西。

我还在等什么，改变啊！但是，我还是很保守。只要不伤害别人，我还是绘表露真实的自我。所以，受伤也是我自己；有时还自讨没趣。纳闷、孤独、安静。我对每件事情都充满期待和渴望，事愿与人违。失望多于如愿，所以可以开心的时候要珍惜。

要奖励自己，不要惩罚别人；要不断前进，不要回首过去。

2010新年快乐

2010-01-01T00:40:00.002+08:00

终于来到了2010年。眨眼，我在KL住了8年。时间过的很快！真的和快！
一路走来，遇到很多人和事。

我由很爱玩变得很安静和安分。唯一不变的是，我爱音乐、电影、摄影和冒险。
我。。。真的变了！变得非常安静、镇定和木纳。

不如说我老了，所以很努力去健身；认识新朋友。
不能不承认，我开始珍惜亲情和友情。很害怕。。。爱情。真的很怕！！！
慢慢的。。。不想触碰到这一块。

看看四周，很多人流很多泪、汗水、辛酸、痛苦、挣扎。。。
所以我认为，我是幸福的。有住在远方的家人关心我，不常在身边的朋友慰问我。

每当朋友很开心的见到我。。。真的很感动。
我还能创造什么奇迹呢？我这双手和脑，到底还能做出什么艺术品？

我那散光的双眼，还能鉴赏到怎样的极品和独特。
我常想，有一天我要创造一些东西；让众人评价和肯定。那会是什么？毫无头绪。

我爱中文，因为中文让我表达更真实的我。英文只是在公司应付老板用的。
每当我用英文是，一点感情和灵感都没有。

我很想出国，工作和居住。到处走走和体会各国的人事物。我没钱，所以要努力做工赚钱。
哇。。。每一年我都会许愿：今年吗。。。许什么愿好呢？

身体健康：健康事人最大的财富，有了健康才能赚到富贵。
开怀大笑：快乐和乐观迎接每一个早晨才能活的精彩。
家人和睦：落叶归根，不忘本不忘父母的爱还要相亲相爱。
友谊万岁：在家靠家人，出门靠朋友。。。小学毕业名句。

祝：碰巧看到我的部落格的网友们，新年快乐！愿；梦想成真，幸福快乐！

日不落

2009-04-18T00:31:00.000+08:00

有些心情，真的很难用言语来表达清楚。我现在的心情，很乱很烦！

工作处处碰钉子，朋友父亲突然安息了，新同事像怪胎，生日的人不快乐。。。一点都不快乐！

我所认定的事情，事实把它变成失望。我该用怎样的心情来面对？这一切的事情？！哎~~~

日不落，代表着依依不舍！在日落的时候，仍然带着光芒离开人间。悄悄的离开，高高的挂在天空！望着这世界发生的点点滴滴。

我的心情忐忑不安，每一天过着期待和失望的心情。我该如何收拾这份心情？我要的，只是简单安逸的生活。宿命，说明了什么？我该认命吗？还是该做些什么？

当白羊遇见白羊的时候，谁也守在自己岗位，怕碰钉子而无动于衷。
白羊，你现在抱着什么心情？期待？快乐？难过？
白羊，你真的喜欢他吗？为什么？
白羊，这是你最求的吗？真的吗？

2009 Team Outing at Sunway Lagoon

2009-03-22T15:56:00.000+08:00

刚从台湾回来，星期六就和大队到sunway lagoon team outing.怎么说，我应该先写我的台湾之旅网志。先插个队，写写去户外游玩的心得吧！

很久没到户外运动了，今年好像忌水。但最后还是到一个有水的地方玩乐。
这是我们集合的合照，拍下这张照片的是我的老板娘。她真是年轻貌美又能干，最爱拍照！第一个活动就是坐ATV跑山车。全场追丢脸的是我，因为我上不到山。前提，其实意看到车，我还是怕怕的。自从撞车以来，我的阴影仍然还在。不要说叫我驾车，连坐在前座，都还是有点怕怕。最后没有办法，还是要应付他们，驾驶多一次。我知道他们在后面笑我有多笨拙。嘴长在别人脸上，解释也不能及时停止他们继续。

我还是抱着开心就好，因为心里还在跳的很厉害。驾车的恐惧症，挥之不去！

接下来的活动有，攀岩、跳弹弹床、午餐、射击、天鹅船、泛舟和fying fox.
以上的活动都难不到我，呵呵！最后还是最回分数了。争回一口气！！！

我们分成黑队和红/粉红队。在糊里糊涂的积分下，黑队略胜一筹；回来划船部分。我队友赢回来了！大家开心就好！
以前很在意的事情，现在都变得比较看得开。不会计较那么多！想看什么、说什么、拍什么、来吧！我都无所谓了。
总之不要出口伤人就好了，但是最费解的就是；在队里总会出现一些破坏气氛和睦的人。自己开心就可以出口伤亏人！哎！

不管什么时候，我还是快乐自在的我。后记，谢谢大家一起欢乐的时光。

请，帮我捉住每一段回忆。。。

2009-02-22T22:12:00.000+08:00

我终于拥有了你，首先；熟识你的功能和能量。第一站，带你到台湾。让我捉住台北每个回忆。台北，我即将来了。。。

人生这个课题，还真的出于不断的学习和成长。不管你现在活到几岁，你还是在成长和学习的过程中。直到停止呼吸的那一刻，你的最后一堂课；是学习离别和放下包袱。

有人说；活着的人，很痛苦。痛苦。。。为什么会痛苦！是环境给的，还是自己？
我说是自己，因为是自己做出的选择。

Life is the SUM of CHOICES．
Life is like BOX of CHOCOLATES.

我的不完美，是因为还没遇见对的他。寻觅了那么长的一段时间，有过客、大男人、情圣、博爱、爱面子、自大、安静、沉默。。。。。。是我在挑吗？我很清楚，不是！每一次，都是时机不对。当我要给反应时，一切都太迟了。或者太快了。。。渐渐自己也搞不清楚，到底是什么状况。为什么会有如此结果！？如果真的让我捉住了他。我一定会快乐和幸福吗？有人能告诉我答案吗？

最近噩梦连连，梦里总是追来追去。很累，隔天精神也没了；浪费了夜晚睡眠的时间。

２００９年希望能遇见对的他，而且我们还幸福的牵着彼此的手。问题是，我会遇到对的他吗？心理其实早已变成灰色了，而每天却努力的为自己的心理刷上色彩。希望粉红能为我带来缘分、紫色能为我带来浪漫、绿色能为我带来和睦、白色能为我带来坦诚、蓝色能为我带来平静。有一天能遇见你的时候，我准备了Ｎｉｋｏｎ　Ｐ６０００－－我为他取名叫‘小Ｐ’．希望小Ｐ为我捉住每一个回忆。

2009的新愿望

2008-12-31T21:21:00.000+08:00

等待。。。每天都在等待。有时候总觉得，在感情方面我很执著。心里好像在等着一个人，对择偶对象有条件。近几个月来，遇到不同的异性；类型有聪慧的、可爱的、帅气+娘的、老实的、乖乖的、怪怪的。。。后来发现其实自己的执著是因为到了现在，我对我的Mr.Right的想法越来越模糊了。女人和男人的相遇只是为了结婚和共度下半生吗？

看见有些人虽然有伴了，却担心那天他会变心。结婚了，怕老公会搞婚外情。好害怕！
虽然近期来有人主动出击，但是却被我冷漠的回应；打退堂鼓了！哈哈！我是犯贱的。

我不想因为到了某个阶段是时候找个人结婚生子，而宁滥忽缺。不管到了什么年龄，我都希望和喜欢的人在一起；而宁缺忽滥。

2009年的愿望：

1。日语学习中级班（目前初级2班）
2。认识新朋友
3。正牌男朋友（因为和男性朋友走在一起，被误以为是男朋友；市场也没了）
4。台湾旅游和香港‘血拼’
5。事业更上一层楼

每一个新年都会许下愿望，希望每天都过着从实写意的人生。朋友有相求，能帮的就帮忙。
等待。。。其实不一定是寂寞的，也可以很快乐。一切的结果都有自己控制，不一定要跟随他人的想法。
改变负面的思考和变得更积极，是我2008年一路走来得收获和成果。

绵绵细雨。。。还没停

2008-12-08T18:00:00.001+08:00

今天终于痊愈了，一个星期后；我才康复。现在脑袋一片空白，舌头都没味觉了！

外面却下着绵绵细雨，整个人也变得懒洋洋。但是，时间滴答滴答的跑着。我还不能闲着呢！是时候为我脑袋瓜灌输增值。有时候想偷懒都不行，还是我一直都在偷懒。哈哈！

我并不期望当女强人，只求当个三餐温饱；健康快乐和家人及朋友和睦相处。

静下来回想在新公司的日子。算是安然无恙，压力渐渐增加。是因为市场的变动还是人事的改变。总觉得处处被针对，不让我休息片刻的机会；别人却可以随心所慾。

这是我想要的吗？这是我追求的吗？这是我拼了命都要保住的工作吗？

总觉得整个人被泼了冷水，一直都不能清醒。心中一股的热火，熄灭了！

我要到哪里寻回那份热情和冲劲？唉。。。雨还在下。。。

休息够了就该努力做工了，不然会变懒猪；猪虽然可爱，但是懒惰就很丑陋了！

现在下着雨，就像在英国的日子；冷冷的。。。淡淡的。。。好寂寞！

我真的很想再见到你

2008-09-30T23:59:00.000+08:00

最近不断会想起，和你相遇的片段。不停的假设和你相遇的画面。
期待与你再次相遇，然后你带着我最爱的郁金香；说：“我回来了！”

我知道你移民了，你在那里好吗？？每天都梦想和你遇见的那一刻，应该感动万分！
因为我们相隔十年了，不晓得你变成什么样子。

最近有点点桃花运，但是都无法让我抬头仰望。
你的影子深深的烙印在我脑海里。

我在心里做好准备，如果无法再遇见你；哪怕最后错过了姻缘。。。我都心甘情愿！
幸福快乐是能够和喜欢的人牵着手，勉强在一起让时间来培养感情是痛苦。

有时候会假设，你变胖了、变坏了、变风流、变冷漠。。。。。。
其实想为自己找藉口，不再去想念你。

我要的是能让我心动的，刹那间的感觉打动了我！更奥妙的是我们是在同一天生日。小时候你总是站在我身后，非常安静的你；有时候都不知道你心里在想什么！？如果真的有一天，我们真的相见了；我们会有怎样的结果呢。。。。。。

我们会相遇吗？

很准，说中我心里的话

2008-09-21T22:53:00.000+08:00

最近无聊的作了一些星座测试。这一篇还蛮准的！
最终还是希望遇见对的他，然后一起生活和过着简单又幸福的日子！

三个月内，愿如愿。。。。。。

渐渐冷淡。。。。。。

2008-08-17T00:32:00.002+08:00

发现自己渐渐对生活冷淡，发现自己本来很积极的事情；失去了勇气和精神。过去带给我的欢乐和悲伤，成为我的记号。现在的我，不管做什么事情；都成为标准！

我很伤心时，不会流泪了；我很快乐时，不会大笑了。我很在乎的事情，渐渐淡忘了！
最近再次梦见你，再次期许我们会再见面！我错过的机会太多了，现在很想知道你最近过的好吗？我并没有固定的要求，只是坚持追求那份感觉。

我不知道以后会变成怎样？除了顺其自然，我也希望能更努力一点。多方面的改变，能让事情有所转变。

HK Trip ending

2008-07-01T10:41:00.001+08:00

Overall I have a great experience living in HK for 7 weeks. Weekdays we are busy for working for more than 10hours with the HK colleagues. They all are nice and sweet. We meet lots of new people and new friend there. Girls and guys :p We have taste lots of different food and drinks. Never forget that I have eat dim sum for 3 days continously. Wah, now i not dare to eat anymore. But all the prawn was big and fresh. For the 7 weeks I have heard the news of si chuan earthquake. Watch the HK tv news report in depth the number of people past away. That was very sad natural disaster. Then myself get food poisoning for the 2nd week in HK. vomit until nearly pengsan in the room, cannot drink neither food. Haih.....after vomit then diarriea. No choice have to take mc and see doctor in central HK. I stay at Mid levels hotel at central,HK. The area housing was very expansive. Apartment cost MYR4-8Million per unit. Lots of super star and datuk stay near my accomodation area. Can use mid-levels escalator back to hotel. I have been sha tin, sham shui pou, kowloon, jordan, tai zhi, causeway bay, stanley market, tong chung, and others. I almost familiar with all the places to shopping and eating in Hk. Really like the mtr service and environment in HK. Others than the expansive living expenses and raining heavily. before i left hk, there are bird flu virus arise. All the chicken were killed to avoid the bird flu virus spread. Lucky after I back to Kl, HK start to hav taifon! After all, I love this picture overall my trip to HK. Cause that my pleasure to have the best fren ever in my journey.

High school musical

2008-07-01T01:23:00.000+08:00

This is disney high school musical stage performance. When I look at them just feel like not real. Haih....I said"If in KL hav high sch musical performance I will buy the ticket and watch".

Oh yeah....dream come true. High sch musical 1+2 ice tour live in bukit jalil stadium. Yo...Mid of Aug I will watch the ice tour live in M'sia. Yeah. I get the lower tier which was just after VIP seat. Yeah...cant wait for the time coming. Sligtly disappointed the 2 main actor not present, the 4 support actor was coming. Ok, not bad at all! Hope the 2 main character will come to M'sia. I wish can see Zac....the blue eye sweet guys!

Macau again

2008-07-01T01:17:00.000+08:00

Hahha, come to macau again. This time for active our training visa in HK. We hav to go and the ferry ticket paid by co. No harm to hav a walk over there. The weather is not tat good, going to rain soon. This time macau trip I have ate the Pork chop toast. Toast? Wen i buy left the toast only no more bun. less than 1 hour finished sold out. "Ji Li Pork Chop Bun" really nice and the curry fish ball also taste good too.

Haha..my dessert was durian ice cream, yummy :p
The last not the least was go to shopping for some almond biscuits.

Wat else I have bought...hmmm....raining already. Stop shopping and quickly take the ferry back to HK. Monday have to start busy work in office. What a day :)

Just recover from food poisoning

2008-07-01T00:59:00.000+08:00

This picture was look cute, lucky I still can smile to the camere. I remember i just recover from food poisoning. I have been vomit for the whole day and sleep in the hotel. Pengsan already inside my room, even the room cleaner also call me many times for room service.

When i just feel better they all pul me out for jalan jalan at sha tin snoopy garden. The left hand side is same level wit me in office. The right hand side was my lovely manager. When I am sick, she keep telling me to eat plain bread and drink water only for 3 weeks. Haih...I won't be so obedient one. Once she go back to KL, immediately Look for my fren to makan makan liao loh! Roti kosong, no way! Cause I still have my medicine which cost me for HKD820. Sure can control my illness. hahahaha :P

After sha tin we all go to Che Gong Miu. Pray for goodness! But I am soon going to pengsan cos my stomach totally empty and cant fill in anythng at all.

My HK trip

2008-07-01T00:52:00.000+08:00

yeah, tat lots of happy and sad thing happen in HK. Firstly, the happiness was the disney trip with my secondary school mates. We have not meet with each other almost 9yrs++. We make lots of fun and laughter here! Specially when we have the indoor roller coaster ride for 2 times. Its really fun. At the end of the day with the 11minutes11seconds disney palace fireworks that was marvelous. This is our memory for Hk Disneyland for the 3rd week I stay in Hk. And getting recover from sickness for the first 2 weeks! See doctor in HK really expansive. I spent HKD820 to see the doctor there! I have 1 weeks illness there! Haih......

Do I still believe what I am believe?

2008-03-26T13:39:00.000+08:00

I am the one never believe that obtained degreeholder can be marketable for job hunt. After finish my college studied, I start work in KL. This was my first job as Company Secretarial Junior Assistant with the M'sia Top 10 audit firm company.

Less than 1 years I left the company, the reasons were I am person who are outgoing wish to communicate with people and marketing/management. I like to think and be creative, look for proper changes requirement and always adapt to the society lifestyle. I left the company......I try to explore the other industry. I am like genuine pig walking in KL.

2 months after, I finally joined this financial industry as management trainee. I work for this company for almost 1year6months. I learned a lot, meeting different level of people(from the CEO/vice president level to general clerk), I have went to every corner of the KL and PJ. I even have put myself into danger/stranger, lucky I am still a live until today. I have lost many things, like my car(stolen), housemate(move to penang), and some friends. I gained regret, uncertainty and lost.

I wish to change to another industry, put my wish that more company will open door for me to enter. I finally decide to pursue my degree in UK. I just need to went there for summer program-3 months for 5 subjects(prepare assignment and exam). I meet new friend there and stay at the country which is 7 hours different from M'sia. At that point of time I am feeling like move to another world. Although is 3 months++ only, felt like 3 years over there. The weather was breezing everyday and everynight. I have no problem to prepare for the 5 subjects there and get quite good result. Then I realise my past working experience make me grow a lot to communicate and interact with people. I have met many knowledgeable lectures and the experience they have shared is priceless. I have gained my positive energy and prepare myself to find job in KL again.

I am here in the world top 3 financial/banking company, before that I have in/out for 2 companies. I always tell myself "let's have a try and see what happen then......"! At the end always regret ending to leave the company. Before I choose the recent new company, I hav 2 offers from both side, I receive the good news during chinese new year at my hometown-kk. If they not call me, maybe I not come back to KL already. They give me a call and I have to make the choice. Another company is consultant firm, the salary guaranteed more than RM2500. I din choose it at the end of the day. Because I have to send to Asia Pacific country perform my job function for 3-6months rotately and allocate to new location. I seldom will stay in M'sia, except holiday. That consulting firm is listed in Mesdaq. The training they may provide for me, other people need to spend RM30k to study for the particular professional skills. But I reject......

I like to do management planning and marketing, cause I like to approach people, communicate and public relations. I wan to perform some customer service task, target for the month achievement. I want to prepare quality proposal which can put my ideas in and make it work for the company. I like to presentation to educate/deliver the message to the right candidates. I prefer to participate in the exhibition/trade fair to meet people. I wan to brush up all the skills and knowledge that cant learn from the book. Aih......

Today I really confuse that......who shall I talk to ? Share to? Do I Still Believe What I Believe ALways? Do I still Have the Patience to Wait and See? Do I need to always put myself in Dangers journey back home? Do I? What Shall I Do? Beside now I am temporary become Batman......no more early bird, if I wake up as early bird, I will turn into Panda/owl.

Never ending confuse and lost......

旅行真好！

2008-03-18T11:58:00.000+08:00

能够一群人去旅行是件很棒的活动！现在在打工的我，真的需要好好安排假日。希望能有机会点名到香港训练。酱我可以旅行和学习，也可以省钱。
在这间新公司遇见很多怪人，而且还是社会新鲜人。‘没料到’却爱‘口没遮拦’还有‘讲就天下无敌，做就笨手笨脚’。再好的容忍和原谅都有极限！很想说，大部分的菜鸟都用屁股想东西的。
我终于知道，死读书vs活读书的差别。在学业成绩上，死读书的会拿到最好的成绩。活读书的人就成绩一般。在花钱上学，死读书的四眼蛇会赢。
出来社会工作，就是活读书的舞台。因为练得一身好武功--太极，以柔制刚；以刚制柔。做人要圆滑，不要擦鞋！要阵正面思考，不要被负面思考控制。大胆假设，小心求证。不要主观评论，要客观分析。很多道理我们都懂，但是有些人写爱把这些道理放在屁股那里思考。结果道理随着一股屁随时随地放了！剩下的只有便秘多天的屎，然后导致脾气暴躁！这些形容词都不美，正因为这些不像样的菜鸟和老鸟。酱的说法较为贴切！

旅行是心灵最棒的加油站，你的足迹走偏世界各地；接触各种种族的生活态度。把狭窄的胸间放宽，呼吸新鲜空气，人就会精神爽朗；才能创造无限的可能！我的下一站旅行----台湾。正在筹备中，将会在今年10/11月或者明年四月。我相信一定能落实。等筹备足够，就会招兵买马一同去旅行。哈哈！

终于大学毕业了！

2008-03-12T14:30:00.000+08:00

终于完成父亲的心愿，毕业于大学学位文凭。相信这是最后一次穿上毕业袍。我已决定了，现在我在KL 的工作，会是最后一份工作。如果工作性质不理想的话。我会搬回家乡了！虽然工作机会和薪水不如大城市。至少可以待在家人的身边会比较快了。在城市的生活，身边的朋友都忙着做工赚钱。并没有生活的素质了。满脑子都只是赚钱。那是对的，因为前对生活很重要。

我很想养狗，自从我的宝贝去世后；已四年了。狗狗仍然是人类的好朋友！猫猫也可以。目前的工作很清闲，都不知道公司是怎样安排工作的！开始觉得自己在浪费时间。所以定了期限就是等到五月，再看上司有什么新的安排。如果一而再的耽搁和理由，我相信到时候是安排搬家的事情了。人一定要知道自己的方向。失去了方向也等于失去了自己！

我又病了。。。

2008-02-20T14:29:00.002+08:00

第一天开工，就很不舒服。天没亮就去上班，身体很热；喉咙又疼。我想我是热底的，手脚冰冷；体内却很热。今天真的无法忍受，始终还是要看医生。同样的病历，我已经减少咖啡；多吃水果和合很多开水。但还是没有改善，也许常常睡不好。当家人打电话来问候时，眼泪又忍不住地掉落了；鼻水也掉落。现在的我很软弱，一点精神都没有，FUN细胞死了。回想上一次也是酱的情况，因该是在AIA做工时期。那一次，我连声音都没了；有用写的来和人沟通。连电话都接不到，费了九牛二虎之力；才发出哑哑的声音。朋友还以为打错电话！那时为了几个大公司的策划书，硬着头皮去上班!等到会议完成后，发着高烧的我，眼泪就像现在不受控制的直接滑落。我的老板娘都感到无奈！看来等新工作上了轨道后，我要去报名健身怍运动。以前都是有常作运动身体才没有那么软弱。今天请了病假，希望明天会好一点！明天再努力做工！加油

好的开始，是成功的一半

2008-01-15T09:20:00.000+08:00

我希望这是个好的开始。我的朋友都会说：“看你能挨过一个月吗？”听了后很想反驳，但却收回了。因为我知道是我的前科，让他们有酱的想法。我在短短的一个月里，换了两份工作。每一次，遇到挫折时，又会打电话回家和父母说：“我要回来，我在这里很残！” 我妈妈不懂有多开心，但是现在又要让他失望了！因为我还是会在KL做工。在家乡的薪水很少，生活开销很高；根本都没有平衡点。所以有些人做了不为人知的事情，让生活平衡！哈哈！我猜而已。

我的人生就是希望，能经济独立；完全不用依赖父母的支柱。我还希望我能给妈妈零用钱，买她喜欢的东西。也希望能带妈妈出国旅行，她带我去了很多次中国。还记得我问她：“为什么，你那么爱去中国？”结果她说：“因为我不会别的国家语言啊！所以要靠你带我去了！”妈妈的学历只有小学六年级，因为已故的外公重男轻女；所以妈妈没有机会继续念书。

我很希望能够带妈妈去swisszerland，那是个环境非常优美洁净的好地方。人的一生将因此而重生！我很想去台湾，但是却去了英国和欧洲。目前为止依然没变就是，终有一天我会去日本东京看樱花、富良野的薰依草、台湾的夜市、阿里山、九分，Florida的DisneyLand。

所以现在要有个稳定的工作，储蓄了钱。每一年都要出国旅行！依我的能力，就算无法从事我的理想行业，我也可以自得其乐！更加明白，人生并没办法如愿以偿，所以尽量不要转牛角尖；转个弯、退一步，人生又再次圆满！

芳芳的2008年崭新计划的理想

2008-01-02T09:48:00.000+08:00

2008年，新的一年；新的计划和成长。为什么，新的一年；我选了这日落的图像？我相信日不落（蔡依林的歌），因为不管什么时候；陷入低潮期我的心要像太阳一样发光发热！最近还是没办法找到我要得工作。不是环境不佳、无所事事、就是骗局！很多朋友也和我一样，但不是有这样的同伴就可以放弃自己。每一天都努力为自己打气是必然的，目标要清晰和不含糊。今天我严格选择我的工作，是为了几年后的我铺路。因为我知道再过几年，我就没有机会尝试不同领域的工作。再过几年，是工作选我；而不是我选工作。所以现在不是随便有工作就好。骑牛找马，说的容易；行动难！所谓不可三心两意。一旦找到了理想工作，就要专心工作。每一年，我都会在这里；写下我的新年愿望和计划！好了，又是发梦的时间到了。哦！不可以发梦，要言行做起。

芳芳的2008年崭新计划的理想：
1。坚持我的理想工作（然后渐渐成为事业）
2。学习新电脑课程（如：Adobe Photoshop, Microsoft Office)
3。年度出国旅行（台湾）
4。学习新外语（日语和英语，最近发现自己的中文也很烂了）
5。我要换新手机（Sony Erricson/LG/Nokia)
6。储蓄（年度薪水的40%）
〈完毕〉

以上都是基本的计划，看是简单；但是却无法坚持到底和实现。
爱情这个问题吗？随缘；因为没有期望就不会失望。不会失望就不会放弃想爱。

芳的座右铭：相信自己的力量，凡是应顺其自然！

Kirarin Recolution 偶像革命

2007-12-16T22:02:00.000+08:00

最近爱上了这部可爱的日本少女漫画。除了可爱和漂亮的动画，故事内容很不错！述说天真可爱、糊涂的大胃王美少女。因为单纯的迷恋上少年团体的其中一员。决心要当偶像明星！遇到许多挫折的她，每次都为自己打气；她的宗旨就是“当偶像就是要让Fans开心和快乐”。所以她会努力完成不可能的任务。人们在遇到挫折的时候，往往都会失去自我；把理想都忘得一干二净。因为害怕、失落和没信心。宁愿放弃理想，甘愿屈服也不愿再为理想作战；坚持己见！从这部轻松可爱的动画片，让我吸取了坚持和单纯的为一个理由和信念；完成理想。所以说任何时候，只要用心体会；都有能学习的精华所在。
还有她的猫咪好可爱又超能干！它的名字是小奈（白+褐）和奈夜（白+灰）。真希望自己能有那么一只酱的猫咪！
所以专心做好一件事情，相信会得到很棒的回报和成绩！不要太贪心。。。一颗心专注于一件事情！

斗牛，要不要

2007-12-14T00:18:00.000+08:00

近期的台湾偶像剧，不错的说！以篮球为主题，融入爱情故事。打篮球的部分精彩无比、技巧和花式非常惊赞！导演使用动作分解，把每一个运球和灌蓝的动作；拍的清晰和精彩！如果像我那么爱篮球的人，肯定会爱上篮球的这个主题的偶像剧。cast方面也很不错，有我欣赏的小美和hebe，这对情侣挡我还蛮喜欢的。李威在这部剧里，演得很man.男人味十足。原声带也很不错，不容错过！

在你心中有这样的一个人吗？

2007-12-03T09:30:00.000+08:00

你们可能相爱过，你们也可能喜欢着彼此，
但是，为了什么原因你们没能在一起？

也许他为了朋友之间的义气，不能追你。
也许为了顾及家人的意见，你们没有在一起。
也许为了出国深造，他没有要你等他。
也许你们相遇太早，还不懂得珍惜对方。
也许你们相遇太晚，你们身边已经有了另一个人。
也许你回头太迟，对方已不再等待。
也许你们彼此在捉摸对方的心，而迟迟无法跨出界线。

不过即使你们没在一起，你们还是保持了朋友的关系。
但是你们心底清楚，对这个人，你比朋友还多了一份关心。
即使不能跟他名正言顺的牵着手逛街，你们还是可以做无所不谈的朋友。

他有喜欢的人，你口头上会帮他追，
心里却不是很清楚你是不是真的希望他追到。
他遇到困难时，你会尽你所能的帮他，不会计较谁又欠了谁。
男女朋友吃醋了，你会安抚他们说你和他只是朋友，
但你心中会有那么一丝的不确定。

每个人这辈子，心中都有过这幺一个特别的朋友，很矛盾的行为。
一开始你不甘心只做朋友的，但久了，突然发现这样最好.你宁愿这样关心他，
总好过你们在一起而有天会分手。
你宁愿做他的朋友，彼此不会吃醋，才可以真的无所不谈。

特别是这样，你还是知道，他永远会关心你的。
做不成男女朋友，当他那个特别的朋友，有什么不好呢？
你心中的这个特别的朋友...?
是谁呢？很多的感情，都因为一厢情愿，最后连朋友都当不成了，
常常觉得惋惜，可惜一些本来很好的友情，最后却因为对方的一句喜欢你，

如果你没有反应，这一段友情似乎也难以维持下去，
这也难怪有些人会因此不肯踏出这一步。

因为这就像是一场赌注，表白了之后不是成了男女朋友，要不就连朋友都当不成了。
有些事不是你能预料的，或许对方不在意，你们还可以是朋友，
但却已经不如从前的好。也是可惜，也是遗憾！
但还有没有可能是另一种情况，你可能永远都不甘心只是朋友. . . . . （完）

坚持我要的

2007-11-19T10:23:00.000+08:00

回来已经快要两个月了，时间还过的真快。这里的气候依然不变，但我的心却开始有所改变。我的改变是回到初衷，充满理想和有斗志的我。原来我的理想，开一间咖啡店；已经对那么多朋友述说过。有时候过了一段时间，会忘记自己要的是什么。当和朋友聊起，才发现原来理想从来都没有改变过。只是被自己遗忘了。。。可悲！

很欣赏有些人为自己理想奋斗，清楚知道要的是什么；而且还很努力的前进。我很喜欢日本人的精神，单纯的追寻理想。很希望自己能做到，单纯的为理想前进。没有任何顾虑、担忧和阻扰。眼里就是看到自己的理想，让梦想渐渐实现！人因梦想而伟大，我不要伟大；我只想快乐。我要以实现梦想而快乐和充实。

不在乎周围的势利眼，只要做好自己。遇到有人需要帮忙和支柱时，拉他们一把。哪怕有一天，我跌倒了，也需要他们的援手。如果一句鼓励的话能让人振作起来，也不要吝啬的给予。看见错误也要指出来，不然就变本加厉。

坚持还真是很大的考验，希望我能坚持到底。为自己加油打气罗！

老猫病又来了！

2007-10-12T22:59:00.000+08:00

之前过渡欢乐、热闹和成群成队。现在叫我静下来，真得很不习惯。成绩快点来呀！工作快点来呀！我快要吐血啦。。。
现在是超级‘闲’，没钱、遇到公共假期。很闷呀！快要吐了。。。背骨时不时就疼，要出门；就给我下雨。惨 :(

现在有点懒洋洋的，得空没事做，脑袋瓜又在胡思乱想。想的有的没得。。。
我的BEADS DIY　１００件，现在才到第三件。好慢哦！看到也懒得动。

半途而废，真没用。朋友们热心介绍工作，我全退掉。一方面也不是我要的！
这次回来，终于要到‘通行证’寻找我的理想工作。所以现在我需要的是积极、自信和乐观。
面对即将来临的困难和冷落时期。我真的希望找到我想要得工作。我喜欢就地取材，发挥所常。
我常鼓励别人坚持他们的梦想，而我呢？但我相信－－努力不一定会梦想实现，但是不努力就连发梦的机会也磨灭了！

只要是人生的梦想，就会有梦想成真的一天；然后受到祝福与期待。
还有身边的朋友一个跟着一个结婚了也生孩子了。天呀，好紧张啊！因为她们走进人生另一个阶段。
之前，和朋友们约好要在２５岁时结婚。到现在。。。巴士并没有停在对的“幸福车站”，而“幸福车站”渐渐离我好遥远。
也许他并不存在于我的人生，也许他还在非常遥远的地方；也许他在我身边擦身而过了。。。

昨晚望着黑夜，风好冷。第一次有酱的期许，如果上天赐我愿望；我希望把我的爱情的感觉拿掉。
感觉这东西，无法控制。增加更多的爱心，但是不要有爱情；酱我也许会活的快乐点。
不要让自己有落空的机会，就是不要有期待，酱就不会失望；也就不再心如刀割。

我真的有遇到我的真命天子，但是一时的意气用事，就酱断送了我们的缘分！我们从小就认识彼此，他很安静但是课外活动很活跃。所以他是一个很酷的男生。我曾经等了他五年，最后放弃了。不知不觉，已经不知道什么是爱情！有些人在我身边给了很多暗示，我却不知道。最后连朋友也没了，有时还莫名被人讨厌。既然爱情的神经已经错乱了，我还要来做什么？干脆拿掉它吧。。。
我不想随便开始一段感情的人，我只想要和一个感觉对的人在一起。对于现代的男生听到这样都吓跑了！哈哈。。。

还是让我工作忙到忘掉这不愉快的烦恼吧！没有人能够救我了，只好自救。我不想求救了，几乎到了彻底放弃的阶段了 :''(　

I bought the 3-in-1 EPson printer

2007-10-03T19:29:00.000+08:00

Finally I have bought the new 3-in-1 printer of Epson CX5500 model. The first thing I do with this printer is scan my lovely dog - Twain Twain....I love her so much...miss her too. She come at 3rd day of CNY in year 2000....until the same day of 3rd day of CNY in year 2002. She go away .... poisoning by my neighbour. Those M ppl really bad, they don like dog. they hate dog...but they cant simply poison my dog. In m'sia nothing much u can do. I really wish IF there are CCTV there, I really go to sue them. But watever I do, my dog never revive back to me.

Everytime I dream of twain twain, still feel like its just happen. When its stop breathing when I hold its. My tears drops....continously...cant stop...Still remember the cold blood animal doctor. Said I need to make appointment for 1pm only do diganosis for my dog. After heard that my tears drop and cry there. That really out of control...cos its not breathing anymore and feel its whole body is soften and no response to me. its eyes is totally close :''' now think back also want to cry! haih.... -.-

I scan this picture, cos this is the only picture i left for her! I am really afraid one day this picture is gone. At least I post it online, I can see her always when I miss her. Afterwards my parent never get any pets....cos really sad....really pain! We treat her as our family members. when its gone, I almost cry for whole week. I still remember I told some of my good friend, they also cry too! Yes, my Twain Twain is really good girl. She is very unique...her mother is Japanese cutie doggie and the father is 狼狗。she is mini size 日本狼狗. get from my next 3 door neighbours. She is the smallest one amongst the 4 doggie - 2 white 2 black. She is totally black colour wen the first day come to our home. TImes to times its getting beautiful, only turn into 狼狗 look!

If next time I hav my own house.....I believe I still will get a dog! I still love them very much!

When I study in UK, really happy to see a lot of happy dog walk walk here n there! Its really precious moment :)

天啊！快倒啦~~~

2007-10-02T10:58:00.000+08:00

有时候还真的很累，不管任何事情。我都只想用最单纯的想法去解决问题！
但是往往都变得那么复杂难搞。对于感情的世界，还真累！

对的时间错的人，错的时间对的人。有缘无份，无缘有份。

珍惜能开心的笑、玩和说！做工后的我，还能吗？也许能，但是皮笑肉不笑。无奈笑 -.-''
我不想再作任何小动作，被动就被动！反正该来的始终还是会来，

得不到的永远都不属于任何人....就是要遇到很多错的人，才能确定他是对的人。

朋友常说我是慢热的人，与其说我慢热；不如说我害怕！我的主动、亲切、关心。从来都不会带来什么好事！而且被朋友利用、欺骗、良心当狗吠。所以也不会相信和期待，别人体谅我的用意。我的出发点往往都是以别人为中心，自己放在最后！但是还是被误解和辱骂。

别人说过的话，只要我听见了；在我能力范围能做到的，我都会做。不会刻意表现。。。
很庆幸的，还有很多朋友高兴见到我回来了！他们疯狂的欢呼，兴奋。

真的比中头奖，还要开心；因为那是无价的 (^o^) 我要继续努力，幸福快点到来！

200 pound beauty

2007-09-29T00:58:00.000+08:00

I watch the KOrean Movie - 200 pound beauty. Very touching and tearing......

A fat girl with great voice, she is so in love with the music director.

She always believe one day the guy will love her

unfortunately, things happen into another way!

She dare to do plastic surgery to sparkling her life.

After one year, she walk out the street...everyone is starring on her beauty

She feel excited, energy and confidence...BUT

She feel hard to look into the eye of the man she love so much!

Sometime when u r so in love with someone,

But don know the other party have the same feeling or not....

u may fear, panic until dare not to see him!

Until the end, Hanna Kang is the name for the 200 pound beauty.

She tell the truth to her fans about herself,

she is Hanna Kang NOT Jenny!

She cry...b'cos she is 200 pound eventhough hav the great voice,

she is singing behind the wall for someone who hav great outlook!

She hav no confidence to love the man she love so much,

she ignore her father to keep the secret,

She criticize her fren in this world no true love for fat ppl

She feel helpless, now she is beauty BUT ........

the man she love cant accept the fake things on her body

she cant face the new her as Jenny...she wan to become Hanna Kang

Hanna Kang...this is real her inside, just diff from outside!

Her fans cry for her...everyone is touching by her...include me and you too.....

She is sincere, she just wan to become beauty so.......

the only man she love will fall in love with her

She sing this song called 《星》by YOUME, nice song....really touching :"

韩文歌词:
바람결이 창을 흔들고 내키만한 작은 나의 방위로 아름답게 별빛들을 가득 채워주네요 셀수없이 많은 별들은 지쳐있는 나를 어루만지며 내맘속에 가득담은 눈물 닦아주네요 많이 아파하지마.. 날 꼭 안은채 다독여주며 잘자라 위로해주네요 걷지못할만큼 힘이겨워 아파와도 눈물이 앞을 가려와도 갖지못할 내 사랑앞에도 나 웃을래요 잠시라도 곁에 행복했던 기억들을 가슴에 간직할께요 두눈에 수놓아진 저별들처럼 영원히 꿈을 꾸듯 다가오네요 유난히도 밝은 나의 별 하나 눈부시게 반짝이며 어깨위로 내려와 자꾸 슬퍼하지마.. 손 꼭 잡은채 날 만져주며 따스히 날 감싸주네요 걷지 못할만큼 힘이겨워 아파와도 눈물이 앞을 가려와도 갖지못할 내 사랑앞에도 나 웃을래요 잠시라도 곁에 행복했던 기억들을 가슴속에 간직할께요 두눈에 수놓아진 저별들처럼.. 나 오늘만은 안 울어요 눈물이 가득 차와도 저기 저별들처럼 나 웃을래요 Oh oh~행복했던 기억 모두 가슴에 간직할께요 두눈에 수놓아진 저별들처럼 영원히

中文歌词:
风儿亲亲敲着窗户穿过像我一样小的房间闪烁的星星如此美丽整个房间徜徉在爱河之中请别受伤轻轻爱抚我的伤痛拥我入怀就算不能走路眼泪挡住我的双眼就算没有爱情我还会一直微笑就像在我眼中的闪烁星星一样我会永远爱你就像梦境一样闪亮的星星照亮我的眼睛闪烁的星星掉落在我的肩上不要在难过抓紧我的双手温暖的保着我就算不能走路眼泪挡着我的双眼就算没有爱情我还会一直微笑就算是暂时的我要把记忆铭记在心就像那些在我眼中闪烁的星星一样

Wish Upon the Star For True Love

2007-09-26T16:32:00.000+08:00

中秋节，点灯笼、吃月饼、泡茶喝、还可以点蜡烛呢！我精心设计的星星与爱心，期许有一天能遇到对的他。他会紧牵着我的手，给我温暖。

人的心情不是任由你摆布的，心动了也掩饰不来。

虽然说希望有选择，但是感觉来了的心情；让我几乎放弃选择。但是有太多不愉快的过去，现在的我几乎是逃避现实。一点也不知道，自己想怎样！除了会装成一副不在乎、无所谓、不正视你的眼睛、当成透明人。这一切的行为都是因为自己没有信心。

听了蔡依林的新歌《日不落》，正好把我对他的感觉，画上完美的句点。

愿他成功建立属于自己的舞台。

《日不落》

天空的雾来的漫不经心河水像油画一样安静
和平鸽用蓝布发芽着云心偷偷的放晴

祈祷你像英勇的禁卫军动也不动的守护爱情
你在回忆里留下的脚印是我爱的风景

我要送你日不落的想念寄出代表爱的明信片
我要送你日不落的爱恋紧牵着心把世界走遍
你就是今天你就是晴天我的爱未眠
不落的想念飞在你身边我的爱未眠

爱的巴士总是走了又停微笑望着广场上人群
我要把爱全都装进心里陪我一起旅行
我要送你日不落的想念寄出代表爱的明信片
我要送你日不落的爱恋紧牵着心把世界走遍

你就是今天你就是晴天我的爱未眠 (我的爱未眠)
不落的想念飞在你身边我的爱未眠

祈祷你像英勇的禁卫军动也不动的守护爱情
你在回忆里留下的脚印是我爱的风景

我要送你日不落的想念寄出代表爱的明信片
我要送你日不落的爱恋紧牵着心把世界走遍
你就是今天你就是晴天我的爱未眠 (我的爱未眠)
不落的想念飞在你身边我的爱未眠

我要送你日不落的想念寄出代表爱的明信片
我要送你日不落的爱恋紧牵着心把世界走遍
你就是今天你就是晴天我的爱未眠 (我的爱未眠)
不落的想念飞在你身边我的爱未眠

Fireworks at Aobert Dock, Liverpool

2007-09-04T03:39:00.000+08:00

This is the best out of many fail picture I took for the night time! Please rate it :p

2007-09-01T16:38:00.000+08:00

London Eye In Purple Light...My only favourite colour....Marvelous!

2007-09-01T16:35:00.000+08:00

London Wheel Night Light - Gold Yellow......

2007-09-01T16:34:00.000+08:00

London Wheel Night Light - Red....Nice (Hope I manage to catch the picture like this)

2007-08-22T01:58:00.000+08:00

一个关于摩天轮的传说一起坐摩天轮的恋人最终会以分手告终
但当摩天轮达到最高点时如果与恋人亲吻就会永远一直走下去

传说摩天轮的每个盒子里都装满了幸福当我们仰望摩天轮的时候就是在仰望幸福

幸福有多高摩天轮就有多高当我们渴望得到幸福但幸福又迟迟没有到来的时候
试着坐上摩天轮等待它慢慢升高直到最顶端俯视所看到的一切
其实我们所要的幸福很简单从那里往下看人都很渺小我相信世界虽大但总有属于我们简单的幸福

当我们感到不幸福的时候试着去坐摩天轮等待着所谓的幸福高度
他们说眺望摩天轮的人都是在眺望幸福传说,摩天轮是为了纪念大水车.

传说,摩天轮的发明是从巴黎的艾菲而铁塔那儿得到启发.

传说,摩天轮就是给恋人坐的.

传说,摩天轮每转过一圈,地球上就会有一对接吻的恋人.

传说,摩天轮的每个格子里都装满了幸福.摩天轮是为了和喜欢的人,一起跨越升空而存在的.

传说,坐上摩天轮就是幸福,随着摩天轮渐渐转动,升起,人们在脚下,变得渺小,整个世界仿佛只有我和身边的人,我们也就离神更近一些.
当摩天论转到最高处的时候,虔诚的许下一个愿望,那样,你的那个愿望就会被神听到,如果神仙认为你是个好孩子,
那么你的愿望就会得以实现.

传说,眺望着摩天轮的人,其实都是在眺望幸福.

传说，爱情跟摩天轮一样，往往是我出来了，而你却刚好进去，又或者，往往是两个人共同在一起，绕了一圈却终于回到原点.
摩天轮"缓缓"的看着世界,我们痴痴的望着摩天轮........

快乐是自己的，不是别人给的。。。。。。

2007-08-20T23:17:00.000+08:00

在英国的生活，实在痛苦！但是很多朋友都非常渴望可以出国。而我却那么身在福中不快乐！
毕竟不是自己的理想，也不是自己的梦想。人因梦想而伟大！

来到英国的第一天，觉得好寂寞、好无聊、好没趣。。。
从宿舍厨房的窗口，可以看见对面住家；有一间养着一条小白。
每天有事没事也会望它一眼，它快乐吗？在我眼里，它是可怜的！
一天到晚，都在那个后院；看着天空、吹着冷风、看着围墙。怎么那么像我在宿舍的感觉！
哈哈。。。真无聊又寂寞！

到了今天，到数17天就离开Liverpool。每个人都会说“不舍得”！而我呢？
喜欢英国的热心人，讨厌英国的寒冷天。当然下次有机会，来到这里；还是很期待的！

在这短短的三个月，认识了很多新朋友。有逗趣的、有骄傲的、有害羞的、有大方的、有热心的。大家都各有千秋，各有各的特色！最近“老朋友”缘还不错，联络上一些，3/5年没见得朋友。大家依然聊得痛快。。。

快乐来的时候，要好好享受。伤心来的时候，要快快治疗！有时候太快乐，就会越伤心；这是人生之谈。接下来就是，努力完成最后的考试。收拾行李，享受欧洲之旅。跟英国的新朋友说再见。回去继续奋斗属于我的人生、我的理想。这里的点滴，将会随着时间的被淡忘掉。。。。。

歌如人生的点点滴滴。。。。。。

2007-08-16T04:29:00.000+08:00

如果歌曲是我人生的一部分，那N-Fun排行榜的每一首歌曲都记载着过去点滴、回忆。
我的。。。他的。。。别人的。。。路人的。。。
最近听回一些“过去式”的歌曲，好多回忆重现，像是才刚发生一样！

*"Waiting for You"--一个昙花一现的恋情
*叶子--一个包厢的寂寞，每一个人不能说的秘密
*我还能爱谁--一个跌到谷底失恋者的心声
*倒带--一对即将分手又设法挽留的恋人
*你最珍贵--最佳合唱同伴
*黄昏--一个边弹吉他边唱边传情，却接不到对面天线的玩笑
*朋友--一群老友姐妹涛的相知相惜
*夏天的风--堕入爱河的时刻
*最想环游的世界--真心付出的心情
*城里的月光--等待、守候了五年的人到了遥远的地方，一去不回头
*一天到晚游泳的鱼--教师节的师生合作演出
*"Somewhere out there"--中学毕业的演唱选曲
*"Christmas in My heart"--一份送不出去的月饼

这样子列出来，好奇怪；但却有一种坦然接受过去的点滴和回忆。不堪的自己，振作的自己。
喜欢音乐的旋律，喜欢听了会毛骨悚然的感觉。这样才会感触良多、由心出发。

最近爱上了一首的歌，[同手同脚]--温岚。很棒的旋律，一首唱给弟弟的歌。还有[傻瓜]，送给一个相信爱情但却反复受伤的傻瓜。。。

一旦关在四面墙的我，在寂静的夜里；隐藏在心底的我就会原形毕露--一个很无助很无奈的我。
害怕热闹后的寂静、害怕离开后的心痛、害怕决定后的后悔、害怕看见懦弱的自己。

成年人必看的五个故事教你学会做人!

2007-08-15T04:05:00.002+08:00

成年人必看的五个故事教你学会做人!

1、宽容

　　一只小猪、一只绵羊和一头乳牛，被关在同一个畜栏里。有一次，牧人捉住小猪，它大声号叫，猛烈地抗拒。绵羊和乳牛讨厌它的号叫，便说：「他常常捉我们，我们并不大呼小叫。小猪听了回答道：「捉你们和捉我完全是两回事，他捉你们，只是要你们的毛和乳汁，但是捉住我，却是要我的命呢!

　　立场不同、所处环境不同的人，很难了解对方的感受；因此对别人的失意、挫折、伤痛，不宜幸灾乐祸，而应要有关怀、了解的心情。要有宽容的心！

2、靠自己

　　小蜗牛问妈妈：为什么我们从生下来，就要背负这个又硬又重的壳呢？

　　妈妈：因为我们的身体没有骨骼的支撑，只能爬，又爬不快。所以要这个壳的保护！

　　小蜗牛：毛虫姊姊没有骨头，也爬不快，为什么她却不用背这个又硬又重的壳呢？

　　妈妈：因为毛虫姊姊能变成蝴蝶，天空会保护她啊。

　　小蜗牛：可是蚯蚓弟弟也没骨头爬不快，也不会变成蝴蝶他什么不背这个又硬又重的壳呢？

　　妈妈：因为蚯蚓弟弟会钻土,大地会保护他啊。

　　小蜗牛哭了起来：我们好可怜，天空不保护，大地也不保护。

　　蜗牛妈妈安慰他：「所以我们有壳啊！」

　　我们不靠天，也不靠地，我们靠自己。

3、鲨鱼与鱼

　　曾有人做过实验，将一只最凶猛的鲨鱼和一群热带鱼放在同一个池子，然后用强化玻璃隔开，最初，鲨鱼每天不断冲撞那块看不到的玻璃，耐何这只是徒劳，它始终不能过到对面去，而实验人员每天都有放一些鲫鱼在池子里，所以鲨鱼也没缺少猎物，只是它仍想到对面去，想尝试那美丽的滋味，每天仍是不断的冲撞那块玻璃，它试了每个角落，每次都是用尽全力，但每次也总是弄的伤痕累累，有好几次都浑身破裂出血，持续了好一些日子，每当玻璃一出现裂痕，实验人员马上加上一块更厚的玻璃。

　　后来，鲨鱼不再冲撞那块玻璃了，对那些斑斓的热带鱼也不再在意，好像他们只是墙上会动的壁画，它开始等着每天固定会出现的鲫鱼，然后用他敏捷的本能进行狩猎，好像回到海中不可一世的凶狠霸气，但这一切只不过是假像罢了，实验到了最后的阶段，实验人员将玻璃取走，但鲨鱼却没有反应，每天仍是在固定的区域游着它不但对那些热带鱼视若无睹，甚至于当那些鲫鱼逃到那边去，他就立刻放弃追逐，说什么也不愿再过去，实验结束了，实验人员讥笑它是海里最懦弱的鱼。

　　可是失恋过的人都知道为什么，它怕痛。

4、神迹

　　法国一个偏僻的小镇，据传有一个特别灵验的水泉，常会出现神迹，可以医治各种疾病。有一天，一个拄着拐杖，少了一条腿的退伍军人，一跛一跛的走过镇上的马路，旁边的镇民带着同情的回吻说：「可怜的家伙，难道他要向上帝祈求再有一条腿吗??」这一句话被退伍的军人听到了，他转过身对他们说：「我不是要向上帝祈求有一条新的腿，而是要祈求他帮助我，叫我没有一条腿后，也知道如何过日子。」

　　试想：学习为所失去的感恩，也接纳失去的事实，不管人生的得与失，总是要让自已的生命充满了亮丽与光彩，不再为过去掉泪，努力的活出自己的生命。

5、钓竿

　　有个老人在河边钓鱼，一个小孩走过去看他钓鱼，老人技巧纯熟，所以没多久就钓上了满篓的鱼，老人见小孩很可爱，要把整篓的鱼送给他，小孩摇摇头，老人惊异的问道：「你为何不要？」小孩回答：「我想要你手中的钓竿。」老人问：「你要钓竿做什么？」小孩说：「这篓鱼没多久就吃完了，要是我有钓竿，我就可以自己钓，一辈子也吃不完。」

　　我想你一定会说：好聪明的小孩。错了，他如果只要钓竿，那他一条鱼也吃不到。因为，他不懂钓鱼的技巧，光有鱼竿是没用的，因为钓鱼重要的不在“钓竿”，而在“钓技”。

　　有太多人认为自己拥有了人生道上的钓竿，再也无惧于路上的风雨，如此，难免会跌倒于泥泞地上。就如小孩看老人，以为只要有钓竿就有吃不完的鱼，像职员看老板，以为只要坐在办公室，就有滚进的财源。

Pressure....pressure.....haih!

2007-08-14T21:07:00.000+08:00

This few days really emotional under control! Cannot control my level of stress!
This time 4th exam revision time is really short. Hate it........somehow is human resource topic!

2 more days left, my brain still empty and nothing inside for the exam. This time really can die leh....... For my pass exam, really make the mistake for over study in 1 section. Affect the scoring....haih.....nevermind la! I am neither a genius nor clever student. Just do watever I can!

The stupid me, few days ago receive some not welcome message. I shall delete it and avoid to see it anymore. really suck message.... "You always be miss in my heart." (I say: "You better left me FAR FAR FAR AWAY) YIEW~~......really mad about it. Really don like to entertain people who always say nonsense. Somehow in UK already hav another housemate's friend always talk nonsense. I have meet a lot of people who talk nonsense. But I have never meet the guy who achieve the scoring of 99%...what an impressive score that I am given! Lucky he still have the good side, which is quite helpful and kind(happen once in a blue moon).

3 more weeks left to study in UK, after the 2 weeks++ holiday tour. I am back to M'sia! Yeah...... \(^.^)p

2007-08-12T14:43:00.000+08:00

可爱的小熊，生日快到啰！这是她的十六连拍。鬼脸搞怪 :)
今晚会给她带来生日惊喜庆生。她一定没想到我会将这张照片放在我的部落格。。。嘻嘻！
以前在拉曼念书时，都不是很熟悉的朋友。在这短短的几个月，也蛮有默契了！
给了她很多花名，如：“SMS Queen", "厕所精灵”，“老板娘”，“小熊”，“水桶”。哈哈！

她是“人小志大，口小声大！”愿她，健康快乐，无忧无虑。

Someone please say something useful.....

2007-08-08T06:23:00.000+08:00

haih, I am not the person like to talk always. Not even a full leadership. When I am weak in study, the top student never share with you how to study or revision or how to answer the Q correctly. Thus, I have learned the lessons be independent and increase my knowledge!

I am able to gain little step by step of my knowledge and understanding. I not really like to have group assignment! Cos normally people don talk, people talk out of topic....people cant brainstorming. Then You tell all the thing, watever you told they just follow and do. No questioning until Yourself find out the Q and fix it! In this kind of situation is not group discussion, all the people like to re-act backward more passive. Really headache errrrr....in this kind of situation I really prefer to work independently. Cos when you take ALL the responsibility with the Team member always say "no idea", "i Don understand".....haih.....When you show the whole task of work it just like individual assignment or the team member may not like it and argument start for the last minutes b4 submit the assignment. I prefer brainstorming, prefer more discussion and generate more individual idea. Cos diff ppl hav diff point of view, that is the resources.

Somehow I try not to say anything during discussion. People will stop there, grap many reference books, go to search internet, look at the wall, look at you don know what to do..........

-.-"' be patient until cant watch this kind of situation continue, then my voice is out! Then discussion is almost my idea + Reference Books to put for the end of the story! I am not a top student not even a genius! I still in progress of learning to understand + digest + self point of view....... all the reference book is people idea and thought. Nothing is fix in this world.

And I really don like or I should use the word "HATE" people say "Its difficult","I don understand", "its complicated".....when they haven do any further reading and research. Or not even spend the time to read through...and keep criticize put themself backward, negative thought, stress and panic!

南拳妈妈的最新专辑《藏宝图》

2007-08-05T17:21:00.000+08:00

乐冒险穿梭听见……
南拳妈妈不思议的音乐探险起风仰望展翅翱翔寻找……
我们梦想中的湘南海鸥
积蓄了创作能量，南拳妈妈不再只是玩着音乐，他们的成长和更多内敛情感全部涌现在这张作品里，没有一定规则的音乐灵感，没有永恒不变的音乐曲式，累积的不只是创作，而是跨足未来的新生能量。

因此这张名为“藏宝图”的全新创作专辑中，收录的皆是由南妈妈成员们共同完成的词曲创作，这些歌曲都是弹头、宇豪、Lara、张杰突发奇想和生活体验而来的异想世界，透过他们独有的创作笔触，为歌曲营造了专属于南拳型态的奇幻音乐空间，每一首歌曲缭绕奇幻异想的氛围，牵领着每位听者跟着南拳妈妈进入这场寻宝的音乐冒险旅程。

南拳妈妈是一个无法预测的组合团体，你永远不知道南拳妈妈下一秒又会带来什么样的惊喜……
南拳妈妈的最新专辑《藏宝图》收录了精彩的情歌，这是南拳妈妈的第四张专辑。南拳妈妈充满学院的风格，创作灵感来自于生活中的细心观察。新专辑的曲风和创作风格更具四人的创作实力和个性。南拳妈妈的成员包括了詹宇豪、宋健彰、张杰和梁心颐。梁心颐是南拳妈妈的主唱，她的创作具有自己的异想世界，想法古灵精怪，在她身上看到音乐的无限可能性。她的甜美声音为三个男声添加不同的效果。

这张专辑收录了主打歌“湘南海鸥”，四人在新专辑中展现了活力和成长的创作，在音乐的路上走出自己的风格。
专辑曲目：
01.湘南海鸥 02.笑着流泪 03.无瑕 04.公主恋爱手册 05.不该结束
06.Here We Go (Feat. MC Hotdog) 07.我们 08.时空列车 09.泡沫 10.顺时钟

I shall continue writing here....应该继续写下去

2007-08-05T15:54:00.000+08:00

This few days I have spend sometime to look at my pass diary writing here! I found that is really interesting, some of the memory is just like happen yesterday.

The time I feel happy, sad, bad-mood, excitment, happenings, movie time, singing moment and outing. Its really a lot of interesting stuff here that I have blog from Year 2004 until now which is getting lesser...... I think must continue blogging here....cos this is the great DIart that I have.

I always make a wish during a new year at 1st January! Everytime view it back, just feel like some is settle down some is still not. Writing English is to pratice and wiritng chinese is my talent. Sometime I love to design lyrics or poem!

I believe when I am confuse or bad-mood to look back this blog, I can find myself back. And now I am back...plus brand new Lim Fun with confidence and talents...hehe :p

Very tired...for prepare exam again and again

2007-07-28T06:43:00.000+08:00

enter the short term summer top-up program couse in Liverpool, UK.
Very tired to obtain this degree! Cos already hav 2 and half year not commit as full time student. The degree course here very short-term with 5 subjects! Really headache!

Its really not easy to cope with the syllabus here. Cos the way of the lecture teach and notes is totally different in m'sia. Is good, cos the lecture let us study the theory -digest it and practice-in our mind! haha.....for me who like to day dream, really suit for tis type of lecturing. Cos i like to put the dry and boring topic into my WONDERLAND. Everything will become alive and interesting. People around me never know how I multitask until put the study into my entertainment at one time.

I am the person LOVE music and movie, no music no life! Then I find my way to enjoy my music or movie PLUS studied. haha.....If u ask me study quietly I will become human wax.....

First time I found the subject of international operations and management topic is interesting. Too bad the study period is too short! When I study the case study I straightforward link to Transformer! haha.....people thought I am crazy, it just like our lecture. He always make some stupid action during the class! all the student laugh at him or immitate his silly move or weird sound. In fact what I have observe is the lecture is laughing us back. Cos he try to pass the signal for us the important areas of the subject. But the student only busy for laugh, never pay attention to wat he say! "You get it, its your wealth, you don get it, is your loss......" i guess this is the phrase always play in his mind.

The exam hav 1 case study is about Kashmir Earthquake Relief. Everyone find it quite difficult to answer. Me too....but after come research and structure the flow for this case study. Now is better ....not too bad....a lot of thing to write how to be the "Transformer" to help people in the disaster area with the knowledge in operations and logistics management.

I have the clear picture already, don know how well others is doing. cos I can see they still put their face deepth into the text book find "where is the answer"? THINK OUT OF THE BOX, MAKE YOUR BRAIN AND SIGHT WIDE :p

Long time never post article here......

2007-07-11T17:50:00.000+08:00

quite sometime i nover write post here. Recently, quite active in the friendster site. My last post here, is the disappointment with someone. This is really no good!

I am in UK now enroll the 3 months degree studied in COmmerce. I think I am clear what the field I am interest to develop my career into it. This also the reasons why i studied for this degree course. I hope and wish that when I go back M'sia or s'pore able to apply for the Management trainee job in the trading, merchandise, food and beverages or fashion industries.

My last job is work as a financial planner management trainee, to work from the lower level I need to sell insurance. HOnest to say that I really don like to sell insurance, I don like the Poker face of the ppl around me EXCEPT my approachables customers. I don hav a great portfolio, BUT my portfolio almost is the quality one. My portfolio almost is the manager and CEO level. All this ppl I get from cold calls. I am very appreciate the trust gained from them, when I do my presentation in nervous, no confidence manner. This is the tough industries and competitive. PPL hav to make themself "money-minded" then only u can succeed. I don wan the change b'come money minded only. That why I left the industries.......

I am someone love to creative and innovation things. Change when needed! I prefer to figure myself as the knowledge and skills demanded ppl. I move forward for my work b'cos of "talent, experience and trendy". NOT money minded, MONEY is important BUT not for ALL the THINGS For life.

Life should be have the work Hard time and PLAY hard time. I wish to hav a stable and well developed career and 2 times travel to the world. Next year I really hope can travel to Taiwan and Japan. FOr my life, I also wish to see the Sakura Festival and Lavender Farm.

In relationships of parents, friends and love. I may failed for my LOVE! Don't know why I don hav the passion to LOVE, find it hard to meet the Mr. Right! When u able to meet the MR.Right BUT at the wrong time and place. Its may turn into MR.Wrong! Hmmmmm..........But at least I can maintain and connect the good relationship with my parent & brother and my friends :)
Lucky that I still have that relationships to push me stay positive!

At the end I have to LOVE myself more, pamper myself...haha....

好失望 :( 真的不该有期待！

2007-04-09T17:49:00.000+08:00

单纯的想和他做个朋友，但是一直被拒绝。原来真正的他，不是那么亲切。看走眼了 :(
在公司是那么亲切，都是工作需要？越是期待，越是失望。

Otters holding hand..cute

2007-04-06T20:37:00.000+08:00

Today i watch the tv news, find out that a kind of animal call outters. Its holding hand and floating at the lake in the zoo. Addorable......everyone love to pay a visit to the zoo or the interner to watch the cute otters holding each other hand. Just like little couple in honeymoon :)

The link below is to bring yours to the lovely scene....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=epUk3T2Kfno

Odd Timing Weird Discovering

2007-03-29T09:46:00.000+08:00

What I want to share is the "New Discover".

First, this few night i feel difficult to sleep. At the mid night, the weather seem going to be rain. I am thinking about my Bed sheet is still at the balcony. Then I wake up to take it. I guess the time should be around 2/3am. When I open the door, living room light on. Oh, My little housemate still doing her job. She is very hardworking and people who love to work. But I don't know she bring back office works until midnight!

Second, today morning as usual I will on my TV to watch the ntv7 breakfast show. This is a great show and full of update info. Today a new guest invite to attend this show. Surprise!! The guy is my ex-company boss!!! Before I left the company, he have publish a book called-"Open Business in 12 days". This is a weird and crazy man...... When he turn up to the show and intro his book, I feel weird x 100times!!! I feel like the way he talk is just like last time he talk to us in the training session. This guy have a lot of admire, but he is weird!

3rd thing, I cant write anymore. I have to go HSBC get my thing done before go to UK :)

2007-03-25T12:28:00.000+08:00

人生的道路里一旦遇到瓶颈或困境时，都会钻牛角尖；如果你能看见这一道曙光。。新天地的门将为你打开！

太好玩了，哈~~

2007-03-16T12:23:00.000+08:00

十条简单的问题,回答看看吧!

1. 百年战争(英法)打了多久?

2. 巴拿马帽PANAMA HAT是那个国家制造的 ?

3. 猫肠CAT GUTS是从那种动物身上来的 ?

4. 俄国人在那一个月庆祝十月革命?

5. 骆驼毛刷CAMEL'S HAIR BRUSH是用什么毛造的 ?

6. 太平洋的金丝雀群岛CANARY ISLANDS是以什么动物命名的 ?

7. 英皇乔治五世KING GEORGE VI的名字是什么 ?

8. 紫织布鸟 PURPLE FINCH是什么颜色的 ?

9. 中国醋栗CHINESE GOOSEBERRY是在哪里出产的 ?

10. 客机上的黑盒BLACK BOX是什么颜色的 ?
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答:1. 100
2. 巴拿马
3. CAT
4. 10
5. 骆驼
6. 金丝雀
7. GEORGE
8. 紫
9. 中国
10. 黑你个答案是不是这样呢？那么你得分数就是 ................0
以下才是正确答案 !---------------
正确答案 : 1. 百年战争 (英法) 到底打了多久?*116年
2. 巴拿马帽PANAMA HAT是那个国家制造的 ?*厄瓜多尔ECUADOR
3. 猫肠CAT GUTS是从那种动物身上来的 ?*羊和马
4. 俄国人在那一个月庆祝十月革命 ?*11月
5. 骆驼毛刷CAMEL'S HAIR BRUSH是用什么毛造的 ?*松鼠毛SQUIRREL FUR
6. 太平洋的金丝雀群岛CANARY ISLANDS是以什么动物命名的?*狗
7. 英皇乔治五世KING GEORGE VI的名字是什么 ?*ALBERT 阿尔伯特
8. 紫织布鸟PURPLE FINCH是什么颜色的 ?*深红色
9. 中国醋栗CHINESE GOOSEBERRY是在哪里出产的 ?*纽西兰NEW ZEALAND
10. 客机上的黑盒BLACK BOX 是什么颜色的 ?*当然是橙色啦~

Still Sick

2007-03-05T10:15:00.000+08:00

I think I have a terrible body. This time went to CHINA/HK/MACAU. for the 4th day after MACAU I am sick again. Now I am very scare to take flight and travel bus. I sick for 3 days at there. Eevryday take diff medicine. Let me count wat kind of sickness I have at there.

First is headache/migrant, fever,cough,flu. I thought is bird flu. Keep fever never come down. Everyday took diff medicine. Now my toungue still sick. Watver put in my mouth was taste weird.

2 days I didn eat anything, cos even drink water I also vomit. I have been vomit until scare oh!

HK food is very expansive, eventhough our money is higher than HK. BUT their living expenses is very high. The weather also very weird! Overall the trip, stay at Shen Zhen is nice, full of CNY feel. Fireworks everywhere : ) Went to the "small man kingdom" quite fun. all the CHINA memorable building is there.

Eventhough I am sick at there half way, one thing I must mention is that a lot of leng chai at CHINA and HK too. all the man there is tall,fair,big eyes and macho. most of the leng chai at HK....really good place to go! hAHAHAHAHA....

2007年的新年旅游行程

2007-02-14T11:22:00.001+08:00

新年已近，又是和家人出国旅行的时候到了。希望这次能享受整个行程 :)

第一天：亚庇 --> 深圳第二天：深圳 --> 香港

第三天：香港第四天：香港 --> 深圳 --> 广州

第五天：广州 --> 澳门 --> 珠海第六天：珠海 --> 中山 --> 深圳

第七天：深圳 --> 亚庇第八天：亚庇

我要吃、买、拍 (^O^)

许玮伦--美丽的精灵

2007-01-30T12:40:00.000+08:00

来自娱乐圈如此惊人的消息，除了惋惜更是提醒人们要珍惜。人就这么一辈子。。。。。。

青春定格在她２８岁的美好年华，怀念烙印在我们心中．

过了2007年的生日，才是我人生的另一个旅程碑。

2007-01-25T17:47:00.000+08:00

休息是为了走更长远的路。而现在的我，是在整理事情和心情。
准备迎接新年的心情，到了三月就是决定我新的旅程碑。

没有意外的话，我新的旅程碑就是出国留学。而我新的计划，领导学位后，我会选择留在国外；除非很倒霉，最后才会再回到吉隆坡发展吧！

但是我有个缺点，这个缺点每次都让我难下决定。那就是，过忧症-“想太多”！！！
正面的会换来“句号”，负面的会换来“问号”；接下来就是头疼、压力和烦恼。
我一定要想想办法，解决这个天生的缺点。

“相信自己的力量，凡是应顺其自然；
建筑人生的桥梁，船到桥头也不难；
发挥个人的强项，繁忙工作能做完；
寻觅爱情的理想，全靠稳重阳光男。” --林芳著

Beautiful Window

2007-01-14T16:27:00.000+08:00

I have a beautiful and marvelous window : ) Can view The KL City View!
The best part for the window is watch the fireworks. Everytime celebration I can view of all the places fireworks : )

Year 2007-Eyes on Malaysia start to spin from 7 Jan '07. Fireworks play everyday...never stop to play the beauty nite of Malaysia! Yesterday 12pm suddenly fireworks again, but this time is in front of my window!!!

At the BRJ there play the fireworks, don know wat they celebrate. I only know tat yesterday night have the football match. BRJ play fireworks for that football match celebration? For m'sia travel year?Don care...just sit back and relax to watch the gorgeous fireworks.

Eye on Malaysia ready to spin

2007-01-05T15:38:00.000+08:00

"Visitors can expect to have a good view of the city from the wheel, including KL Tower, the Petronas Twin Towers, Genting Highlands and Istana Budaya," she said. "And there will be daily shows as well."

The 12-minute ride will cost RM15 for adults, and RM8 for children and concessionaires.

2007年。。。非同凡响

2007-01-01T19:15:00.000+08:00

今天是我决定，许愿和定下目标的时间到了。
新年前夕，到1 Utama倒数。没有很尽兴，站了一整晚；等待倒数、等待烟花、及等待许愿的时间的到来。
好，我知道该定下什么目标了:)
1. 我要从3分钟热度升温至13度-意思是培养耐性和热诚；
2. 我要到国外留学领取学位-degreeholder;
3. 我要努力寻找我的真名天子；
4. 我要培养及学习“非常自信”，“非常坚强”，“非常乐观”。
生活莫过于，不断地观察身边发生的事情。关心别人的需要和自己的权利。永远保持一颗纯洁的心，大胆假设；小心求证。要越挫越勇，积极进取；自我增值 :P 甘巴茶

By, LF \(n.n)/

Its time to....Make A Wish & Goal Setting

2006-12-28T23:33:00.000+08:00

I read back my past 2 years blog writen. Every 1 Jan I will write my new year wish and goal. Everytime I will hope that I can make it dream come true. I always remember my friend ask me that "怎样衡量所谓充实的一天/月/年?"

And I choose to make a wish...to push myself forward and achieve my goal : )
For the past 2 years I have make quite number of wish. I get the ratio of 6:4 Its means 6 wish haven achieve and 4 achieve(Congratulations!!)

3 more days I have to set new goal and make wish For Year 2007. Let me figure out first : )

Eragon-The Begining of the Dragon and RIder

2006-12-23T10:59:00.000+08:00

The Eragon is interesting dragon and the rider story to fight for peace. This movie like LOTR...
LOTR is the power on the ring! Eragon is the power on the Dragon and the Rider's Magician.

The new born dragon dare cute : )

The day I watch this movie, I get a nice seat. Not lucky that 2 girl sit beside me very noisy. Talk b4 movie start until the end. If she talking about the eragon that was fine for me. But she is like mumbling, and criticize the movie. Why don she just save her money don watch this movie : (

I learn from the movie, no matter how talent you are! Or you have the world great weapon! If you have no confidence, no brave, no skills & knowledge and not accept people advice you will still a loser forever UNLESS you start the RIGHT CHANGE!

Coming soon movie I wan to watch like "Museum at the Night", "Sinking of Japan" (n.n)P

充电的一天

2006-12-02T18:46:00.000+08:00

一早就被恶梦惊醒。起床后，很自然的动作；就是拿起电视遥控启动。每逢周末都不会忘记看卡通戏，我的最爱呢！
午餐一小时候，上健身房去咯！为了锻炼身体，集中练习为求练得美丽线条。哈哈:P
到isetan购买食品，今天很开心；因为买到香浓的德国咖啡和原味韩国泡菜。

总觉得老天爱跟我开玩笑，没关系；我会努力的 \(^O^)/

女人30岁前要做的事

2006-11-27T23:10:00.000+08:00

女人30岁前要做的事30岁，可是你要做人生很多事的时间底线，不是说过了30就绝对不能做了，是过了30再做，就不那么好玩了，不是那么回事了。那么，趁现在还来得及，一试这些美妙的感觉吧！

1、自助海外游经历一次
2、饲养宠物一次
3、在BBS上痛陈情史一次
4、做小电影女主角一次
5、独立生活至少一年
6、再见初恋情人一次
7、拜会小学启蒙老师一次
8、脱产就读一次
9、暴走或露营一次
10、主动辞职一次
11、在家工作半年
12、主动求婚一次
13、在结婚之前彻底放松一次
14、离开那个你已经失去感觉的男人
15、重温大学生活一天
16、助养孤残儿童一名
17、告别处女年代
18、参加主题自行车旅行一天
19、当一回新妈妈
20、做一次志愿者
21、鲜血一次或捐献骨髓一次
22、学会与水亲密接触
23、深度芭蕾训练
24、检点自家的环保自律性
25、整容一次
26、染发一次
27、上网征婚一次
28、开吉普越野一次
29、读破一车英汉字典
30、与父母彻夜长谈一次

聆听心里，从心出发。

2006-11-25T22:33:00.000+08:00

每天夜晚，都会看着窗外寂静的夜景。希望能很平静地，聆听心里的话。
因为现实社会，渐渐的没有原则；因为业绩要求，渐渐的没有理想。

自己想说的话不能说，说出来的是别人的台词。
自己想表达的情绪，却被别人压得死死的。
自己想做的事情，最后都是在处理别人的事情。

人就那么一辈子，外面世界那么大；眺望远方放宽视野，这样才没有白活。

好怀念以前的生活，可以开怀的笑、大声的说、轻松的唱、逍遥的逛。
“相信自己的力量，凡事应顺其自然。”-林芳的座右铭

Buy Books Again......

2006-11-24T22:58:00.000+08:00

Dinner meet up with my Johor ex- housemate. After dinner go to book store, oh no...i buy bokks again. Until today I have 5 books haven finish reading. My eyes extremely tired. 2 spec also not enough to support my eye sight.

We having the claypot rice at petaling street. I found that all my fren talk negative. Actualy I also quite negative. Cos I lost of focus and support already. I don hav any soulmate/relationship,my parent at KK. I am alone here...BUT I feel lucky cos I always hav ppl encourage / support me. When I down they will take care if my feeling. This is only pleasure I gained until today. I always can hav new fren and new coach. Sometime I feel that I am too lay back, passive.

Today 1 of my frendly coach teach me a lot of way to approach Home Loan. Something he personally share wit me. He thought I don know, BUT some of the "traditional sale skills" ppl do it to survive / earn more $. All this thing I hav heard it and knew it already. BUT I never apply it cos I am not comfortable to do so. In my heart, I like to take the challenge which can turn the worse/messy thing become better/in order. Finance is not my interest : (

Coming June 2007 I will continue study to UK-Liverpool earned my degree. My fren share with me the student Europe Tour cost RM2k++-backpack. I feel so excited \(^P^)/ No matter how, I wish I can go to Furano-Japan to watch the Lavendar. Must.....

乱了，真糟糕！

2006-11-23T19:35:00.000+08:00

原来的计划，又被夭折了！我真的乱了，伤脑筋 -.-"
台湾行泡汤了，我的台湾，到底何时才能去？？？我的弟弟都去过了，哎哟！

明年的富良野（Furano)-日本行，也要取消了。2008年才从新计划吧！
2006年，年头去上海-中国。七月去曼谷/巴达亚-泰国，生病之旅；痛苦！

我理想的魔幻咖啡馆，越来越模糊了！

My emotion change like weather

2006-11-11T11:31:00.000+08:00

After I go back hometown recharge. I found out that I have a lot of change of my emotion. It change become very negative and always criticize people. Mayb I hav keep too much of anger into my stomach. In KL always hav to act humble and cant have own personality. Cos I hav to protect myself in this City.

When I go back Hometown only realise the anger n all the negative thought that I hav kept for long time ago. Now, I can feel that no positive and no energetic to warm me up, to push me forward. Very very very down....so down!!!

Sometime feel very tired for the human communication part. In the business society u need to hav a poker face which is wat I don want to hav! If u don hav the poker face, either u will b in trouble or people create problem to send it to u.

The types people I meet until today, make me shake my head until goin to drop:
1. People who love to make small problem become big;
2.People always carry poker face, don know the word come out from the mouth is true/not;
3.People like to create problem;
4.People like to eat snake and always put the failure to other;
5.People who cant open mind to accept other ideas even knew it can benefited;
6.People thought themself very smart but actually always make the wrong decison;
7.People thought they hav all the talent and no need learn from others;
8.People thought their lie is successfully cheat people in fact NOT;
9.People use their own principle to measure other principle and thought it good for others;
10.People always over promise and make people face the loss;
11.People thought they hav experience all the critical thing in life In fact the road still hav long ways to go that u never know wat will happen next;
12.People always blame that god is not fair to them;
13.People always force people to love them and never think other feeling;
14.People take things granted and hav a lot of complaint;
15.People have a lot of excuse become dependence and burden;
16.People love themself more than other;
17.People always suspect other will do something not benefit them;
18.People very calculative until the end still loss;
19.People want to earn fast money and never think for long term;
20.People want to get marry but a lot of family problem stop them;
21.People want to get marry because can inherit a lot of money;
22.People will kill each other for money even hav blood relationship;
23.People easily to get divorce and don wan to b responsible;
24.People give up to put hope and wish for stable love relationship; and
25.People don want to face the problem and always choose to RUNAWAY......
26....continue for Year 2007

我“肥”来啰！

2006-10-28T19:56:00.000+08:00

今天从家乡充电回到为生活拼搏的地方。烟雾没了，空气好清新：）要“ON”电咯！
充电后的感觉是那么的实在，感觉能量无比。

接下来，要写日记；在家乡的期间无法上网 :(

27 Oct 2006 - Friday

Last day to stay at home : ) morning accompany my brother to see dentist. Wait until wanna fall in sleep already. This dentist clinic very old fashion, never renovate the clinic at all. Plus the 60's office phone anf 50's magazines.

At night I finally hav my seafood dinner at home. Its a lot...hav prawn, tiger prawn, big fish, cheese crab and pepper crab and shark fin soup. I think I am going to gain weight lo...hehehe

26 Oct 2006 - 星期四

去探望我那七十五岁的外婆，然后带她去我阿姨的家。顺便探望我的表妹弟。我的小表弟越来越胖，才九岁而已身材如油桶，真恐怖！

晚上竟然辛苦的挖椰子肉，椰水才那么一点点。

25 Oct 2006 - Wednesday

morning go to eat dim sum, a lot of people. and a lot of tasty food to eat...yumi...yumi...fat again!

Evening go to indian restaurant, eat a lot again. I hav my nasi bryani rendang. Taste good! my brother took milkshake. at night get sick already b'cos milkshake and spicy food can hav it together!

24 Oct 2006 - 星期二

妈妈要去马来人家拜年，弟弟到街上买电脑零件，而我呢？和朋友去海边和打篮球。在海边玩的像疯子般，大喊大叫！年龄２０＋，１５＋和９＋，大伙儿玩的不亦乐乎。没有代沟，还有朋友的父母和亲戚们。有好吃的，好玩的，和好笑的！

休息到六点，到篮球场去了！从篮球界出道就认识的高级裁判，他还认得我也！他是一位很公正和有见地的长辈。他叫Ｊｏｈｎｎｙ。。。打了４场，精疲力尽，快不能动弹了！充实的一天 :)

23 Oct 2006 - monday

my mom work half day,we plan to go for movie. The Robe-babe-hod, jacky chan and louis koo. we watch at gsc-kota kinabalu. My mom long time never go to cinema lo, so we go together. Who know, in the midlle suddenly no electricity. for a while, screen no light but the show still play. 3rd time no light again...really a bad experience wit this cinema. But the movie tickets very cheap la!

三个字----曾之乔/阮经天

2006-10-18T22:57:00.000+08:00

爱情不是一道选择题
我知道那个时候你就已经做了决定
你心里永远都有着一个相信
而我的相信
就是支持着你的相信
因为我心里有三个字
不能告诉你

如果没有你和他的约定
我的爱会不会有一种权力
成为你的行李陪着你去旅行
无论是北极还是云里

我还守着我和他的约定
最后幸福会写下一份证明
就算没有生气就算还会伤心
无人相信生命的奇迹
不该再用我的爱困住你
不该再让你眼中有泪滴
好不易去找寻
那三个字的替代者
也许我们从此不再相遇
永远记得你微笑的眼睛
别伤心你放心我知道三个字的意义

如果有一天
命运让我们再次相遇
而你的答案还缺少一个回应
或许你不知道
其实我也在等待另一个奇迹

我还守着我和他的约定
最后幸福会写下一份证明
就算没有生气就算还会伤心
无人相信生命的奇迹

别伤心你放心
我知道那三个字的意义

当你笑着找到你的相信
我会将这三个字化作你的姓名
永远地放在心里

Worng communication Create Misunderstanding

2006-10-17T22:14:00.000+08:00

sometime I find out that most of the people will fight with each other. The main factor is wrong method of communication. Sometime don't know why people never bother they need to think first before they talk. Afterwards, create argument then fight to each other.

Some people always think that they are king, everyone must listen to him. His communication way is an order, you just take the order and cant ask any questions. This is the world troublesome people who also arice the fighting environment. DEMOCRATIC....

Some people think too much until don know wat to say. At the end become very passive and lay back. BUT I hate the people who talk like KING (own thought only)...tis kind of people should hav the same destiny like the motorbike. Your never know I wish one day the motorbike can be bomb/destroy forever. I really hate people who take motobike. Always abuse people life on the road.

Sometime act like Kayu also good, make no feeling and no emotion. Then no need to bother wat people say. People already angry until like devil, if I act like wood, make it like nothing happen. don take it into account. U never know u will increase the enemy anger until surrender. Hahaha...this is Fun's virus new features called-Fun Wood Virus.

another fun virus is don answer call virus. This few months i find out that i don like to pick up call. I can really ignore it until not purposely BUT happen naturally until forgotten. Hahaha...

People Come People Go

2006-10-11T18:40:00.000+08:00

My recent job is very challenging. Always face a lot of different challenge and problem.
Lucky is in this line have a lot of mentor to assist me to move forward.

When I meet some problem cannot solve I can look for my senior, lady boss, trainer, friends and etc. In fact, I am live in the happening environment. Sometime my self thnking and feeling, always bring me towards negative. The negative thought appear like Devil to lead u to give up n stop move forward.

Why I still want to work for this line, my own objective is to see how far I can go and do I have the ability to help people. I am work as a Financial Services Consultant. Basically I do Insurance planning, in another way called Risk Management. I do home loan, will writing services, Employees Group Benefits Program, Medical Program and etc. Except credit card.

The biggest achievement and happiness I enjoy for this line is people said THANK YOU for me. And they find my services and advice is good and helpful for them. Your won't believe one. Most people said that either u r Financial Planner or Insurance Agent. You are money minded!!!

The services I provide is Intangible Goods, client will only gained the benefit when bad thing happened to them. People never curse themself to have bad thing happened. Sometime when unfortunate event happen and you not transfer the risk to the related party. End up use your own pocket or borrow/begging other to help also not enough. Then How?

My way to approach people is based on their need or planning then to give solution and advice. I never force/begging people to enroll the program. I always left it for the client to think properly why they need it and what the purpose they want the program.

People always said insurance cheat people! unit trust cheat people! When u meet the loss u wil said the XXX cheat me! But do u have ask urself at the begining how well you know what is all about b4 you start the program? Sometime the representative well explain, BUT do u pay attention to listen and understand?

让爱情简单一点，幸福就会更丰富一点！

2006-09-29T21:00:00.000+08:00

“感情的事不必想的太复杂，遇到可以爱的人，就不再犹豫了，好好去爱；既然已经爱过了，就不必再后悔，因为曾经拥有。”

感情的事情，该表白时就要表白，不要怕被拒绝，也不要怕不好意思。虽然说了不一定有机会，但不说永远没有机会。

我。。。连表白的勇气都没有。结果是什么到现在都没有得到答案！渐渐心已冷却了，渐渐与世隔绝；渐渐没有期待。。。

有位朋友告诉我，不要太刻意去追求爱情，爱情该来的时候就会敲起你的心门；这时候才尽全力的去爱、珍惜、保留、长相斯守。。。

过敏

你消失的一百天我没了笑脸怕别人看见我敏感的神经线一点一点没知觉
泛红双眼不成眠它跟着我一整夜麻痹的脸特效药也无解
才发现我正搁浅在爱情过敏的季节 oh过敏源是对你的思念
我想我才了解我正停格在爱情过敏的季节季节没改变是想念没断线
我想我才发现感情尘蹒已布满了我的世界 oh过敏源是为你流的泪
我想我才了解就算用尽了力气也未必如愿季节没改变是眼泪弄湿脸
季节一直变但我的心没有变
你消失的一百天我没了笑脸没知觉

闲人一等、社会又浪费一粒米！

2006-09-19T21:33:00.000+08:00

下午，搭巴士回公司！有个浪费米的白痴，巴士司机要检查车票。这个白痴，只以为是的说自己不会为了RM2来骗搭免费巴士！
规矩还得遵照啊！巴士司机也不赖，严格的请求他“只要show车票”；就行了。
白痴就是不服输、不愿意、很赖皮的到最后才心不甘，情不愿的拿出车票。吵的整车人都知道才甘心 : (
白痴还责怪司机让他丢脸，他说要蹁也要RM2亿！唧唧呜呜地......吵个半命。幸好司机也没理睬他，只不过白痴不停的埋怨搭德士根快和舒服！活该的白痴，司机说：“你那么有钱，就不要搭巴士啊！坐德士、或者买辆巴士和司机。”这时候的白痴才终于哑口无言，但是过不久还是要故意惹司机。真是皮养 -.-"

浪费米饭的人，还多得很！浪费社会资源的人，数不清！

My Dream will come true one day......

2006-09-13T20:10:00.000+08:00

I always make myself confuse then complicated! My life is not complete, something is missing so long. Now I feeling don't want to bother about it!

This matter always at the GREY ZONE. You never when it will happen o not?!

I try find my dream, what my dream that I haven make it come true?!

Sometimes, quetioning myself which dream I have make it Come True? Yes? No? Don't Know?

I have to believe, Dream will come true with hope and effort : ) Add Oil..hahaha

2006-09-02T18:03:00.000+08:00

my lovely shoes.....i like it so much : P

RING RING RING......WHY YOU HAVEN CALL ME?

2006-08-29T21:56:00.000+08:00

终于瞭解等待滋味是让人这么抓狂崩溃
难道你对我没感觉给了你号码怎么还不来电
RING A RING A RING RING A RING A RING
会不会是你要响几声才能接
心跳的声音蹦蹦重低音
怕铃声会停赶快按下通话键
拉长耳朵提高警觉神经细胞全面戒备
你的电话决不漏接 RING A RING A RING 爱的和弦铃耶
管他网外或是网内月底再考虑通话费
体温已燃烧到沸点我不怕熬夜
管他黑眼圈耶来电 AGAIN

ella rap：接到你的来电我会大喊 YA YA
我听到你的声音我就 OK
抱歉忘了矜持到底怎么演
可是兴奋很难收敛

反覆看手机好几遍就担心电池突然没电
你到底有没有感觉给了你号码怎么还不来电
RING A RING A RING RING A RING A RING
会不会是你要响几声才能接
心跳的声音蹦蹦重低音
怕铃声会停赶快按下通话键
拉长耳朵提高警觉神经细胞全面戒备
你的电话决不漏接
RING A RING A RING 爱的和弦铃耶
管他网外或是网内月底再考虑通话费
体温已燃烧到沸点我不怕熬夜管他黑眼圈
耶来电 AGAIN

rap：RING RING RING
爱的和絃铃在进行
心跳的声音开始震动我的神经
反正你是否在等待
我已经在这边期待RING RING RING
希望听到你说嗨

oh oo 拉长耳朵提高警觉神经细胞全面戒备
你的电话决不漏接
RING A RING A RING 爱的和弦铃耶
管他网外或是网内月底再考虑通话费
体温已燃烧到沸点我不怕熬夜管他黑眼圈耶
拉长耳朵提高警觉神经细胞全面戒备
你的电话决不漏接
RING A RING A RING 爱的和弦铃耶
管他网外或是网内月底再考虑通话费
体温已燃烧到沸点我不怕熬夜管他黑眼圈耶
决不喊累

人生啊。。。

2006-08-28T21:09:00.000+08:00

快乐的时间像灿烂的烟火，瞬间消失。
悲伤的时间像杂乱的草丛，难以磨灭。

有时侯觉得身边的人，看起来蛮“顺眼”；有时候觉得身边的人，看起来很“欠扁”。
有时候觉得周遭时常发生不愉快的事情胜于愉快的事情。

“平行的是我们的路，疲惫的心；在各自的轨道，独唱情歌。。。。。。”

我又闯祸了：(

2006-08-24T20:34:00.001+08:00

我真是个笨蛋，没要救了！我今天又闯祸了。。。。。。
一个失误，就得赔上代价。每一堂课，就得得到教训。

粗心大意、缺乏耐性。。。就快没要救了！

虽然我为她带来那么不该犯的错误，在她的动怒言语中；她有称赞我的计划书写的很好，但就是粗心大意，而且为她造成麻烦。我真的诚心对她说声“对不起”
我想我唯一能弥补我的过失就是，如果她被老板责怪；我一定要亲自向她老板承认我的过失。或许我会失去签约的几率，但这是我唯一能做和弥补过失！

保佑我，会雨过天晴吧！但还是要谢谢我的同事们，看见我哭了，都凑过来安慰我；眼泪就是不停使唤的落下来。

我该怎么办？

2006-08-19T23:33:00.000+08:00

到底是“人定胜天”？还是“天定胜人”?
该相信命运？还是相信自己？
我到底是怎么了？怎办？

life is so good, b'cos of u....

2006-08-17T19:06:00.000+08:00

Yesterday night I hav bad dream. Until I still remember that I dream of the snake bite my cat then the snake escape. But why the snake in dream is in black colour n with "FUR"......

Today attend a training course, not bad! Cos once I open the door, I saw...I saw...."Mr Right"..hohoho....wat a wonderful day of the early morning.

I don know how can I make it that....the Mr Right stand in front me, talk to me n smile to me. I still can control myself not to express my internal feeling of admire him. Unbelievable : )

One of my fren tell me that...u hav let the guy know ur feeling toward him. Sorry, too many bad experience I hav of tell the people how I feel. Nowadays me change to become passive n reserve. Wait the Mr Right come to approach me, it might never happen. Even hav ppl approach me also don hav the feeling.

Shall I try one more round to tell him? Or I reserve and enjoy my own imagination and dream?Anyone can give an ideas?

10 Happiness Things

2006-08-10T22:48:00.000+08:00

This few days very late to go on bedtime. Hav a lot of proposal and presentation to do!
Eventhough I am busy, but feel very happy. Everyday smile until cant close my mouth : )

Everyday is a fantastic and wonderful day, the good things happen like:
1. My lovely fren just come back from London, but i still don hav time to call her yet;
2. I saw my Mr Right again and again so happy;
3. I get my new laptop;
4. I will get one group case in soon;
5. I contact back my ex-housemates at Alpha B-12-9;
6. I hav wireless online at home and office;
7. I finally get my lovely song-moonlight shadow;
8. I can take the diet holiday to eat my OREO biscuits;
9. I manage to claim a death claim for my fren aunt; and
10. I am happy to share all this wit the people who read my blog : )

Life is simple, then happiness always around you. Once you take it easy : P

2006-08-06T20:16:00.000+08:00

Butterfly......

Butterfly-My favourite decoration

2006-08-06T19:54:00.000+08:00

I like butterfly :) Its change from a small n ugly worm. Go thru the time,vitamin and effort. It turn to become butterfly.

Why not put the butterfly lifestyle into human lifestyle? Ppl success...its because they change, change to become the real personality inside of them. Its not transform thru luck, its thru the time n effort to make it real n true. The natural colour is being born not by artificial.

How about u? Discover the beauty of butterfly...then u can know wat is ur objective and goals for ur lifetime as born in this world.

见到你，感觉真好：）

2006-07-14T20:45:00.000+08:00

好高兴，与你近距离得接触！看着你那认真的背影，急速的步伐，衬衫还有点皱皱的！
你的脸好红哦 :P 最让我感到惊讶的，当你一见到我，大声的叫着我的名字。
让我感到意外的惊喜，这感觉真的好好噢！

单纯的幸福了 :)

2006-07-11T23:57:00.000+08:00

S.H.E...Forever+top music....new album hav Jay Chou n JJ Lim music....SHE the best in Taiwan

Another SHE make me feel disappointed!

2006-07-06T11:16:00.000+08:00

This SHE I really respect her and glad to hav her to become my lady boss. Who know clever people will make mistake wen they think they r too clever (聪明人被聪明误）.

Suppose today I hav to prepare to go Bangkok. Yesterday receive a bad arrangement that make me feel surprise and angry! How come arrange me to stay one room with a male colleague!!!!!!!
Nonsense, last minutes tell me tis kin of arrangement. I thought she is kidding, who know is real. I DON WAN, DON WAN.......

NO COMFORTABLE, NOT CONVENIENCE, NO PRIVACY AND NO NO NO!

After yesterday chat wit my fren, I think I wan to giv her surprise already! Until today I still not pack my lugage at all. Cos my head on fire...... today 4.30pm if I still not pack my lugage! Then tis is my surprise for her. I DON WANT TO GO ANYMORE, HOPE SHE ENJOY!

U really make me angry errr.....

2006-07-03T23:00:00.000+08:00

Don know start from wen I try to put down my emotion. Behave like wood, thereafter I get new nick name called "wood". Cos i wan to put my emotion aside to observe, to think and to plan properly. Wat exactly I wan!

Try to put down my arrogant, my negative though and my careless. To concentrate on wat I hav to put a lot of effort into it. B4 today, I really can control my bad temper and compromise.

Today this lady really make me angry! I know I not helpful enough, thus I giv her a sign don ask me. Cos I always cant help her at the beginning. End up she still ask a lot of Question that not me can answer her. End up she cant get the answer she wan and just "shoot" on me......Wat lah...She really make me feel angry. Then I also didnt said anything, mayb my practice to become wood make it work. At least I still can control myself not to get angry *_*

My job really hav a lot of work to cope with, I still new in this industries. Not everything can be upload to my little brain. This old lady thought I am computer, everything can be traced. She is the world damn shit hav a lot question to ask. she is worse than a little kid to ask "thousand million of Why? Why? Why?Her whole face expression already have the word "W.H.Y"

She even hav more working experience than me...I really don like her! She even not genuine too, I can feel inside of her hav kept a knife to kill ppl any time.

End up I just told myself, "u r just a rubbish for the part of my lifetime, my world cant kept rubbish, therefore I can continue my life happily.......^O^ (*feel better.......)

2006-07-02T23:27:00.000+08:00

Today I watch SUperman Return after my yoga class. Watch with my fren long time no c one....hmmm....the movie i rated it at 3 out of 5 stars!

2006-06-26T18:59:00.000+08:00

The Twin Tower made by all thie little bottle....

2006-06-26T18:58:00.000+08:00

Twin Tower at Lantern...unique

2006-06-26T18:56:00.000+08:00

Lantern at Bukit Jalil.....nice place...

25岁的女人，应该做什么？

2006-06-23T23:02:00.000+08:00

1.25岁的女人存折至少要拥有6位数。

评论：我不知道有多少25岁的女人，已经拥有6位数的存款了。不过，对此我并不觉得是一件必须的事情。年轻，只要你愿意努力，并且坚持自己的努力，钱只是一个数字的问题，迟早都会有的。

2.必须拥有一套商品房，房子必须有你的名字。

评论：每个在城市里飘荡的人们，都渴望在城中有一个自己的家。有一套自己的房子。现在很多女人都会觉得房子比男朋友或者老公，更能带来安全感。是的，有的时候，一间自己的屋子，不仅是你身体休息的一个场所，更重要的是，它给你一种独立和自信。25岁，是不是该努力去买一间自己的屋子了呢？

3.化妆台须拥有名牌不同功效的护肤品。

4.不定期的购买各类名牌彩妆，知道彩妆的潮流资讯。

评论：女为悦己者容。好的皮肤不仅仅是为了取悦别人，更是为了取悦自己。现在的女人，越来越多地需要“抛头露面”，因此好的护肤品和彩妆产品是非常必要的。不过，有一点更加重要，不管名牌不名牌，适合自己的才是最好的。

7.有一个很爱很爱你的人

评论：爱，是可遇而不可求的一件事情。能拥有当然最好，如果不能拥有，不要太强求。而是不是一定要25岁有，那就更有点太强人所难了。我想，只要能保留爱的勇气，依然相信爱情，就可以了。

9.有自己的事业

评论：事业，绝对是女人的必需品。在我的理解中，事业是女人独立的保证。女人只有取得社会的认同，有社会价值，才能获得自信，在自己的家庭中，才能得到别人的重视。也许25岁的时候，我们的事业才开始起步，但是没关系，坚持下去，工作是付出越多回报越多的，感情不是。

10.会品赏红酒

评论：记得一些美容书上说，睡觉前喝点红酒是有利于皮肤的。不过，很抱歉的是，对于红酒没有一点研究，更别说是品赏了，这个要求有点高。

13.每星期必须做一次手部护理

14.每2星期必须做一次脚部护理

15.每星期必须做一次脸部护理(没时间可2星期做一次)

16.每天晚上必须喝一瓶牛奶

18.必须注重自己的衣着和仪态

19.头发必须保持有香味

评论：这些外表的护理，是女人宠爱自己的一个表现。虽然说，女人的气质是由内而外的，但是外表绝对会影响女人对自己的态度和看法，影响女人的信心。手、脚和头发，是身体中很细微的地方，只有一个注重细节的女人，才能真正的懂得生活。

20.除了自己的BF外，至少还有一个深爱你的人(但你可以不爱他，可以忽略过去的)

评论：除了这些化妆品，护肤品和各种健康药丸之外，爱情是女人最好的保养品，同时，也是一种奢侈品，不是每个人都能承受得起。

21.必须看大量的报纸和杂志(包括政治新闻)

评论：不要做一个平面美女，那样的女人没有味道，经不起时间的考验。除了报纸、杂志之外，还要有一些好书，这些都是在调理女人的内心。

22.虽然你不喜欢的，但至少应该去了解一下有关汽车的知识

23.要注意自己的形态身段，并开始注重胸部护理

评论：从25岁开始，女人一定要注意自己的健康，并且能养成每年都能去体检的好习惯。很多疾病，都是因为发现的晚才耽误治疗的。身体，是一切的开始。

24.要有超过2个以上真心的好朋友

25.在朋友面前不要炫耀和自以为事(这样是很令人反感的)

26.绝对不可以说脏话(这是没修养的表现)

27.要拥有几个值得信赖的好友

28.和朋友出去吃饭，不要因为自己是女孩，就不愿意埋单，觉得别人请你是应分的(请记着)

评论：现在的生活压力很大，我们需要聆听，也需要去倾听。以前的一句老话是，朋友如手足，妻子如衣服。如果拿来用到现在，其实也可以说，朋友如手足，男人如衣服。有很多话，亲人不能说，男友(老公)不能说，只适合与知心好友秉烛夜谈。

29.学会聆听别人的意见

30.多点和家人吃饭、聊天

31.一定要知道社交礼仪

他的选择。。。除了祝福。。。愿他幸福！

2006-06-17T20:50:00.000+08:00

他选择到地狱寻找天堂，我唯有祝福他能幸福快乐！
反正我们现在是好朋友，愿大家都能找到理想情人。

送走了一位 Mr.J , 又来了另位 Mr.J-2。真伤脑筋 :P

gatric again......waste another opportunity

2006-06-16T23:18:00.000+08:00

today MC again, cos gastric. I really have to stop having coffee, spicy n sour anymore!
Want me to die without taking coffee n spicy food. shit......

All my fren around me always warn me not to have any coffee anymore :( "NO"
My dream in future is to open a coffee shop! i hav find another way to avoid sickness after taking coffee!

hmmm...miss another opportunity to meet "him" again! mayb no fate for us ;( We always in the same building BUT hard to meet up. Wish him healthy n happy always :)

2006-06-03T21:19:00.000+08:00

No.43...her complete look...overall the motor show...she is the top 5 highest votes!

2006-06-03T21:16:00.000+08:00

Toyota sport car...wwooommm~~~ ei...car show girl...cant c her face?

2006-06-03T21:10:00.000+08:00

Asimo from honda...look funny

2006-06-03T21:06:00.000+08:00

Proton new car 5+2 seated......

2006-06-03T21:03:00.000+08:00

MAA 2006 Motor Show at PWTC

2006-05-29T22:04:00.000+08:00

The change of Jolin...can u see the diff?!

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